Lose interest-- help for motivation?

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selfacialist
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Re: Lose interest-- help for motivation?

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Enjoyed another sesh with the hypno-track: I have a suitable vid or two looping on the computer, headphones with the hypno-track looping, flip into the plough, cockring and anal toy in posish, and ... boom, blew another load into my waiting gob... and swallowed most of it. Swallowed more of it this time as well.

Hallelujah... hallelujah, hallelujah, halle-lu-jah!

That's twice now. Still not as into it during and after as I am in the run up. But it's progress...

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Re: Lose interest-- help for motivation?

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Swallowed my 1st ever full load... Froze one, then, next time I was feeling horny, instead of adding a 2nd load to the 1st, as planned, I let the 1st thaw, and chugged it down.

No chorus of angels or explosions of orgasmic fireworks, alas. But it was a first. And unlike loads blown in the plough, where I lose interest, or even feel some degree of revulsion, this was both exciting and fun.

I think the next goal is a double or triple load dose ... but can I restrain myself that long?

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Re: Lose interest-- help for motivation?

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My take on CEI videos: I find it hot when sexy women talk about you swallowing your own cum and describe it. I don't find the mocking and calling the guys losers and all the put-down bullshit appealing at all. Some might in a sissy/mistress kind of way. I haven't "needed" those videos ever to make myself swallow my own cum, I love doing it and do it willingly, anyway. :)

I, like many others, have found edging really useful. I never just straight up jerk off into my mouth, let alone cum in my hand and eat it from there. I do it in the plow position, bent over with my cock pointing at my mouth. By this time, I've watched a good amount of stimulating material and am raring to go, my cock throbbing and barely containing the jizz load that I'm about to shoot, taste and swallow, little by little.

I caress my shaft lightly, often concentrating on my frenulum area. I don't touch my glans that much, since it's all swollen and sensitive now, and that would be too much stimulation. I continue in this way and soon have precum dripping down at my eager lips. If I feel too good or that I'm about to full-on cum, I stop. My goal is to tease my cock just enough for it to start leaking actual cum.

First, the drop of precum on my meatus is infused with lovely, white milky liquid, which turns it all cloudy. It starts to drip down and I get the first taste of the awesome liquid. I caress my cock more, persuading it to release more of the creamy nectar, which it does, in small drops and little spurts that I swallow and enjoy. I milk myself like this until the orgasm is inevitable. Then my cock spasms and pumps out all the lovely, creamy goo that is left, which is all gulped down.

When you cum gradually, and have it leak out before you orgasm, you don't lose the urge to swallow. This way you'll still want to do it and find it hot.

I hope this helps anyone, or is at least an exciting read! I sure began to seriously consider doing just what I wrote. :)

To finish my post, I'm sorry for again advertising my own videos, but I just posted online a video titled "Expert edging lesson: huge gooey cumshot in mouth". I think it perfectly showcases what I just wrote.

Please view and respond to me here or on there, I'm happy to answer any questions:
http://xhamster.com/movies/3374808/expe ... mouth.html
I'm on xHamster with lots of cum swallowing videos and my username is ThickSaltyandSweet also there :)

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Re: Lose interest-- help for motivation?

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Hey all-- saw some new comments on the thread, so I thought I'd also go ahead and talk about my progress lol.

As it stands now, I can get erect and keep a good hard-on for a couple hours with my partner. I can finish inside her pussy, eat her out or have her suck me off and share a cum load. It's the most amazing feeling in the world, lol. Almost a year ago, I could barely get it up and maintain a hard-on while having sex. I needed like constant visual stimulation and porn level like thoughts to even bust a nut (which would sometimes take hours). In contrast, I could jizz all over myself within 2 minutes just watching CEI videos and cumshots to the mouth (guys or girls).

I have to say, doing NoFap really did help me. I would do it off and on for periods of time; just so I could train my brain to go out and find dates (was girlfriendless when I first started and most girls I sexed told me I was terrible after the first few dates, so that sorta became my motivating factor to keep off the porn). Eventually the NoFap stuff started helping me, and I began to associate other things as just as sexy as eating my own cum (e.g. eating pussy, sucking tits, making out).

Fast forward to last month, I started watching some CEI videos again-- (mainly because my gf was gone for a month visiting family in Asia). I decided to take Al's advice and limit my masturbation time to once or twice a week. I got back into the eating cum addiction I once had lol. (I enjoy the plow position the most, so after a few drinks-- I would watch my favorite scenes and bust all over my face and mouth).

However, the thing that helped was I limited myself to doing it a few times a week. The other times, I would not masturbate at all. Just because I didn't want to overdo the NoFap thing-- I guess in doing it this way, I was still able to keep a boner for all the days I didn't masturbate, think about how much I wanted to fuck my girlfriend (because I missed kissing, tits, pussy, etc), but also know I could have release up to two times a week every week (like a cheat meal). Eventually though, I just decided to say fuck it-- bought a ticket to see my girlfriend in Asia, and I really really fucked her brains out-- missing all those other things I could do too in sex.

We had a lot of sex, and more than anything I was really really horny for her too (I missed the pussy, making out, tits, etc). I decided though to combine the CEI stuff with sexing her. After busting a nut on her, I cleaned her off with my tongue. She was shocked at first, but when I said it's better than wasting tissue paper to clean it up-- she agreed with me, and now loves watching me eat it off her. Since she likes cum too, she will occasionally finish me off after a bit of S&M, vibrator and fellatio-- which leads to her getting cum in her mouth which we both share.

All in all-- I think at this point, I'm pretty much in great shape. I think libido is definitely in the mind-- one just has to find stuff they enjoy on the regular to get hard for and also release. For me I just think about my girlfriend and all the crazy sex we have together. I feel like eating my own cum is a part of what makes my relationship work with her lol; because she also enables me to do so-- for anyone who wants this kind of relationship, I would say they should definitely bring the cum fetish up early early on in the relationship so you know if your partner likes it too, or if not-- you can dump them fast and go on to the next cum swallower lol. Once you find them, enjoy your cum with them as much as possible, that will make you harder-- (if you're gay and have a boyfriend, well enjoy each others' cum as much as possible too lol). Those thoughts will make you hard enough that even if you're on your own and jerking off to a hot porn scene, you'll still want to do it with your partner in real life too :D

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Re: Lose interest-- help for motivation?

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Hey nickyricky - that is so great! I love a happy ending ;)

Glad to hear my advice was helpful. Viewing noFap as a TOOL, rather than as a moral thing or some weird cult seems like the best way to go to me. We are all much more flexible (no solosuck pun intended) in our sexuality than we tend to understand - I think men especially have a tendency to fixate on certain things and to be pigs with porn. We can retrain ourselves in a lot of areas, and we often do so without realizing it when we have unlimited porn to view (AKA - The Internet).

So glad you've found ways to satisfy some deep needs and desires - sounds like your GF is a good match for you.

AL

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