So my yoga instructor knows I can do this...

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We're going to try to meet up sometime next week, but I am not expecting anything more than just talking about my favorite fetish as well as a few others. Basically I'm going to continue the conversation we started at the class last week and being that it will just be the two of us, I'll feel comfortable talking about a bunch of stuff that I wasn't quite ready to do with strangers around.

I am still interested in getting private yoga lessons which would be at some other time. Hopefully she'll be up to help me with that.

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Would totally love to stay updated on this thread-- wish you all the best with your hottie yoga teacher and she wants to join in with your selfsuck adventures :)

Private yoga instruction sounds great-- a couple stretches in the plough position, some green drinks and a handjob-- who knows what kind of position you'll be in next :P

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I hate to spoil this for you but I am not trying to hook up with this woman. She and I are both married to other people, however, she's into a lot of interesting stuff that makes me look like a priest by comparison so who knows. I do consider her a friend and do hope to continue going to the nude yoga classes she teaches. (Did I mention it's a co-ed clothing-optional yoga class? I know mentioned it in other threads but perhaps not here. So yes, we've seen each other naked.)

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Hmm interesting-- what do you hope to get out of all this? Maybe just someone to watch?

I'm currently thinking about getting married some day-- but the thought of giving up a lot of my sexual abundance sometimes scares me. I do love my girlfriend to death, and there are plenty of reasons to marry her; but I just wonder some day if I'll end up wanting to hang out with other play partners too (I still love sex). I know my gf doesn't like to share-- so it would have to be a personal sacrifice. Just curious about you-- now that you brought it up, if you're married-- does your wife know about your solosuck lifestyle? How much time do you spend between having sex with your wife and doing your solo activities? Just curious-- if it's hard to answer I can respect that.

Naked yoga sounds really hot-- am tempted to check it out one of these days (while I still can lol).

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Since she's a yoga instructor but also has a kinky side, I am hoping she can provide tips to help me to get more of my cock in my mouth. I've always wanted to ask a yoga instructor about autofellatio but I've been afraid they'd find it offensive and against their philosophy. I've seen people mention it on forums about yoga and they generally receive hostile replies.

That being said, if she's cool with it, I wouldn't be adverse to demonstrating my abilities. I'm proud to be able to do this, but I want to get better at it.

My wife does know I can do it and I've shown her on a couple of occasions. While it doesn't turn her on, she seems supportive of me doing it and says she's proud of me when I've told her I reached a personal best. I knew I couldn't keep my interest in this a secret since this is such a big part of my sexuality. I told her years ago I'm the moderator of this site and she must have forgot because recently she asked me what I was looking at online and I told her; she was surprised there's a place where guys who are into this talk about it.

One of the other things I'm wanting to discuss with my friend is that I've got several kinks/fetishes that my wife doesn't necessarily know about. I have a foot fetish and she thinks feet are dirty and disgusting and seeing footsex in porn totally grosses her out, while I am thinking it's hot and I'd like to do that.

My wife and I don't have sex that often, but I still masturbate frequently. Unlike most people, I don't see one as a substitute for another. I can have sex and be done but then shortly thereafter get horny and want to masturbate. They are two completely different things.

I lost my virginity at 26 and got married when I was 33 so solosex has been a big part of my life and I've learned to make the most of it. I really didn't think I'd get married, but fortunately I did. I love my wife and can't imagine my life without her, but I'm too into masturbation to give it up. She's not against it as she does it too, but masturbation is such a big part of my life and I don't want to give it up.

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Really interesting thread, surprising how this topic has morphed! I'd really like to hear if your yoga instructor has any good tips on what stretches or poses might help with SS.

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I'm seeing her on Tuesday, although the exact time is up in the air. I couldn't make it to yoga class today to where I could finalize the appointment in person so I am still waiting to hear back from her.

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I found the comments on your interest / motivation in solosex very interesting. I think its more than just a form of masturbation. For me a big part of it is the physical challenge, to see if I can actually do this. I have thought about it on and off for most of my adult life. But it has also helped me deal with a partner who is not able to do things like in the past due to medical issues. I thought about looking fro a "friend" on the side, but I just can't do it, I care about my partner too much to let someone come between us or put us at risk. So this SS challenge is an outlet to explore my own satisfaction in a safe way while challenging myself physically as well. No contact yet, but I have seen such tremendous improvement in my flexibility that it has been somewhat satisfying in that way. I'm able to move in ways I did not think possible, I feel my posture has improved, and I am not seeing pulls or other injuries from my running that I used to see on a fairly regular basis. So despite not yet reaching my goal to ss, it has been a satisfying journey. I think I will eventually make it, I'm trying to do this safely. But I admit I get jealous when I see others on this site doing is with what looks like such little effort! Appreciate all the tips and insight on this forum, its been a extremely helpful!

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dreamer 8888, I too have been somewhat jealous. I have a strong feeling that most of the members on here can't go half way down their penis on a regular basis. I feel it takes time to practices SS; including stretching and exercising, and this is all involves time which some of us don't have a lot of. However I feel it can be done, it just might take more time than some of the more flexible members have taken to get to their goal.
Also, too some of these members have been doing this for decades.
I have been doing it for four years, the furthest I have gone is down halfway, but not on a regular basis.
I regularly do yoga, swim, cardio, and SS stretching (how to tips in SS forums). I do at least one of these everyday.
I realize that your main point in your post was not to point out that you get envious of others, but I just felt it important that you as well as others know that I think we all get somewhat envious.

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Thanks for the feedback, this helps keep me going! I also try to do something each day to work towards my goal. I think my running may actually be working against my flexibility, but the stretching definitely helps. I was just watching a video on youtube tonight where it was noted stretch routines should be varied, similar to how one trains with weights - vary the muscles you work each day. And stretches should be held for 1 - 3 minutes. Any shorter and the benefit is limited. So I'm going to focus on this now to see if that gives me more gains. I noticed if you tense the muscles being stretched and then release, you can go deeper. Saw this tip in the forum I believe as well as elsewhere, its fairly common knowledge I believe. Have taken up bike riding and have seen nice improvement from that. I focus on the plough cause that is how I get closest. But I keep wondering if maybe I should try another position even if it means starting from farther away. I'm just not hitting it with plough! Watching the other guys on vids here has been very educational on technique, position, etc... This site is a great, always updating resource!

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I just wanted to say that she didn't get a hold of me until after I got home from work today after being stuck in traffic for nearly an hour, so we're going to meet up on Thursday instead.

My back was killing me after lifting heavy boxes yesterday so I got a massage tonight and I feel a lot better now. Unfortunately, my lower back still hurts a bit (massage wouldn't help that; it's joint discomfort) as I think I may have overdone it last time I tried selfing so I may not try again for a week or two. There's always a risk of injury when doing this and on occasion I've pushed a little too hard so hopefully I'll feel better soon.

There has been no indication of what her thoughts are regarding my hobby. I hope she's at least neutral about it. I'd hate to hear her say I shouldn't be doing it because the risk of long-term damage to my spine. If she's cool about it, I'll see if I can schedule a private yoga session to focus on the areas that would help me meet my goal. You might have seen in another thread that I had a New Year's resolution to get at least the head in my mouth by the end of the year and I've got nearly 4 whole months to do it.

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dreamer8888 wrote:But I keep wondering if maybe I should try another position even if it means starting from farther away. I'm just not hitting it with plough! Watching the other guys on vids here has been very educational on technique, position, etc... This site is a great, always updating resource!
I think the C-position is a good one to try, even if plow works better for you. While I can only occasionally make contact in the C-position, it does allow you to bend your full spine including the upper portion which I feel doesn't necessarily get a good stretch in plow (in my opinion). Ideally I'd like to be able to get my cock in my mouth in C-position because it means I would be able to do it pretty much sitting anywhere and wouldn't need a mat or any props to do it.

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Yes, I agree. I always do the C; mostly to stretch upper back.
Dreamer 8888; yeah doing plow in different distances from the wall for me has helped with stretching more of my back.
I believe, that is what you meant.
I will usually start in my normal distance from wall in plow, then I'll scoot more towards bottom of bed about 5 to 7 inches, then I'll scoot closer to the wall about five inches from my original starting (normal position) position that I started from.
I've found that I usually focus on this about every couple months. I'm not sure why every couple of months, maybe I just need to stretch those areas while in plow once an a while.

Dreamer 8888 I would like to watch the You Tube video you mentioned. Can you post the link?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3kxn8L ... 42OKnXum-A

Hi,
Here is the video I mentioned. This guy has a lot of vids posted on stretching, some great info and tips here. He's quite a character too, has other channels with interesting topics too. but I like his athletics channel best, he knows his stuff!

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I met with her tonight. We were to do this at the place the class was held but nobody else was there and she didn't have a key so we went to her house and talked for nearly two hours. We discussed a lot of different things, autofellatio being one of them. I told her how it's a passion of mine and asked what she thought when she saw my pictures. She said that she thought it was really impressive and I asked her if she thought it was weird and she said no and that if she could go down on herself she definitely would and could probably make a ton of money doing cam shows.

I asked her, being a yoga teacher, what she thought I could do to get better at it. She didn't say much that I didn't already know. She said to do a lot of hip openers and to work on my neck. She also said losing weight could help and that I should try breathing exercises, seeing that there's a lot of lung compression going on. She said doing yoga regularly should help get me more limber and that it would also help me avoid injury. She also stressed to be careful with my neck as it's a delicate area.

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