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What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2018 1:00 am
by Polevaulter69
So what goes through you guys thoughts as you self-suck? Does it take so much concentration that you are totally into the act itself? Do you think about the power bill being late? For me at first the act itself took so much effort and balance that all I could think about was “getting there”. Once I was in a good position I constantly worried about my back being limber, my balance, whether or not I would be able to cum, or just how deep I could go. I’ve now been selfing for many years and pretty much have my technique mastered as well as I’m going to so I find I’m able to enjoy the act apart from wondering how deeper or how much more comfortable I can get. When my penis is deep in my mouth I think about the texture and warmth of my tongue and how soft my foreskin feels rolling across my gums. I fantasize about 69ing another guy I know and Imagine my own penis being his and how much I want to taste his cum. At the same time I imagine him sucking me and how I want to cum with him simultaneously. Once I made myself hysterical when I realized I wasn’t 69ing myself but “zero-Ing myself since I was curled up like a ‘zero’ instead of the 69 with someone else. I think about how I want to taste my cum and how it’s going to taste this time. If my tongue isn’t giving enough sensation I try to run it across the sensitive corona side of the glans. So what about the rest of you?

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2018 6:41 am
by PlowingOnesSelf
This has always been a topic of interest for me as I am a heterosexual in an area that other heterosexual males largely feel to be, well “gay as fuck”.


But anyway, I think about when my wife has done of her best mouth work on me and try to emulate that as my initial thoughts, but as I get into the act the thoughts drift towards new women, likely of the variety of the porn I am watching/listening to, as I sort of disassociate my own mouth and the feeling of it around my hard and sensitive cock.

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2018 11:17 pm
by ganymedetroy
100% focused on the feel of the dick against my tongue. I definitely suck for the feel in my mouth, not the feel on my dick.

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2018 4:27 am
by Happy Boy
i'm the exact opposite...it is all about the pleasure of having my cock lovingly teased and edged to an earth shattering orgasm. if i could lay back and get the same orgasmic sensations without bending in half, i would absolutely love it.

...but back to the fantasy question...
i have heard it asked before (and answered), but i *never* understood it. when i have my cock buried in my own mouth and i'm milking it with my throat muscles to a transcendental orgasm after an hour of oral teasing, what could i possibly fantasize that would make it better?

i mean an enthusiastic woman that wants to 'help out' would be great, and as you say being able to comfortably stay down longer or getting deeper would always be nice, but honestly in the moment i'm doing it my mind doesn't need a single thing to think of outside the pleasure i'm simultaneously giving and receiving.

"but that's just my opinion...i could be wrong" - dennis miller

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2018 10:17 am
by aleingang69
I have sometimes used memories of sex with other men to get myself going at the beginning of a session, but the moment my tongue makes contact with my hyper-sensitive frenum I am totally in the moment - it really is a kind of mindfulness meditation (or - as they say medibation).

I love sucking dick, and I love fucking a man in the mouth, so I guess I'm getting all the stimulation I need just by doing what I'm doing!

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2018 1:27 pm
by blacksunshineaz
I think I should lose weight and wish I had a longer cock because after all these years I've never progressed past being able to wrap my lips around the tip. :(

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2018 4:48 am
by Happy Boy
losing weight definitely helped me...again i wish i had some secret to impart, but my lifestyle has just gotten more active, and because i'm busier i snack less. depression helps a little in my case too...a lot of folks eat when they are down or stressed, but most of the time when i'm low i just don't feel like eating.

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2018 10:44 pm
by JRon
Surrendering to my cock and "spoiling" it is what I think of sometimes. I focus on being powerless to my own cock and giving it the attention it deserves! :shock:

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2018 12:51 am
by Eddie
Yeah, it's hard to eat when you're self-sucking!
Happy Boy wrote:
Sun Feb 18, 2018 4:48 am
losing weight definitely helped me...again i wish i had some secret to impart, but my lifestyle has just gotten more active, and because i'm busier i snack less. depression helps a little in my case too...a lot of folks eat when they are down or stressed, but most of the time when i'm low i just don't feel like eating.

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2018 8:41 am
by igodownonme
I don't fantasize at all pre-selfsuck. The sight of my junk in my face and the smell drive me wild, especially my smell after having a nice limbering day of working outside and sweating. As I warm up with my face in my crotch, I grab my dick and balls and give a good tongue bath, followed by a good suck of the head, until I shoot it all in my mouth. Nothing like it in the world, and I've had great sex with the women in my life, but I keep my SSing all to myself, and it's very liberating on many levels. So yeah, for me, sight, smell, swallowing and secrecy! SSSS..

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2018 6:04 pm
by Suckmyself
sometimes i talk(think) to myself, "oh ya, that feels amazing!" or "Omg i love sucking dick so much!" or "wow, how is this possible, that i can suck myself off so well?"
i guess i am making love with myself, yes?
I get into it too, in a sorta frenzy of sucking cock, really enjoying it, loveing it.... explosive orgasms... and two hours later i make love to myself again.
Wish i had of learned to enjoy this more in my youth, and just enjoy being my own lover without all the complications and psychological mismatches of relationships that always ended badly.
To this day i still get excited about getting home so i can get undressed and face fuck myself into oral oblivion.

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2021 6:22 pm
by Polevaulter69
So this past Sunday I had the house to myself and decided to have a nice long selfing session. What finally made me cum was the thought that I wasn’t going to stop getting sucked until I came in my mouth, that a CIM was definitely going to happen, and that I was going to transfer my sperm from my nuts to my stomach by way of my wet, warm mouth. That’s what put me over the edge. :mrgreen:

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2021 2:33 pm
by jhonny
all I focus on is getting deeper, holding back from cumming and getting deeper. The more I stimulate my glans the deeper I get and I feel every tight muscle in my body relax as I focus on getting deeper.. mmm all that with another selfsucker or poppers fuck compilation running in the background. love the sound of men groaning. :twisted:

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2021 3:39 pm
by PT1962Redux
Polevaulter69 wrote:
Tue Feb 02, 2021 6:22 pm
So this past Sunday I had the house to myself and decided to have a nice long selfing session. What finally made me cum was the thought that I wasn’t going to stop getting sucked until I came in my mouth, that a CIM was definitely going to happen, and that I was going to transfer my sperm from my nuts to my stomach by way of my wet, warm mouth. That’s what put me over the edge. :mrgreen:
I totally get off thinking the same. I love being so close to my balls and watching them tighten while I take my dick in my mouth. Thinking about how im pulling cum out of my dick into my mouth to swallow and I just lose control. Its intense.

Re: What do you think about while you self-suck?

Posted: Mon Mar 22, 2021 11:07 pm
by autofellationyymi
jhonny wrote:
Mon Mar 22, 2021 2:33 pm
all I focus on is getting deeper, holding back from cumming and getting deeper. The more I stimulate my glans the deeper I get and I feel every tight muscle in my body relax as I focus on getting deeper.. mmm all that with another selfsucker or poppers fuck compilation running in the background. love the sound of men groaning. :twisted:
During best sessions it's similar for me. Just focusing on cock, getting it deeper and avoiding cumming. It's very unique spiritual sensation.