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I decided the next time I received a blow job from my other half I would tell her about my little secret activity's it took about a year but today was the day ,she was quite neutral about it not disgusted not turned on by it she just said its your body enjoy it ,I was a bit disappointed it wasn't a turn for her but you cant have everything ,I think I had got to the stage were I didn't care what the reaction would be ,I think she was relived that I was doing something that didn't involve me pestering her nor anyone else ,now to work on telling her about my other hobby selffuck, one step at a time ,its perhaps a bigger leap this one I think everyone knows EVERY guy wants to suck his own cock ,but fucking your self is not so much in the popular conscious ,not that that will stop me telling her when the times right .

Good for you telling your wife sorry she doesn't get turned on by it. I guess its still a niche. If you need a buddy to suck with let me know

That's great, variousandy. Sounds like about what you'd expect - I know there are some women who are excited by men sucking themselves, but I think it's hard for a lot of women to understand our obsession with our cocks

Maybe if you - very, very gently - bring it up again at some point she'll be more intrigued, having had some time to get used to the idea? Anyway: congrats on a brave step, man!

Ditto, a brave step and imagine a good feeling of relief it was shared. Seems she did not totally close the door. Have a feeling she might be curious to see you do it at some point and may even help with holding a pose. Congrats. Self fuck might be a little heavier news, but imagine it will go over ok after probably thinking how it is possible lol. I'd think she would be more curious to see it (share your interest type thing). Good Luck and look forward to your future post on how it went

Too bad she did not cheer up, my friend.
Few months ago I've made the same decision as you and includes, by accident, the selfsuck in my relationship with my girlfriend.
At first she seemed a bit confused, but then began to like it and even ask.
Last night she almost made me choke on my own cock, while sucking my ass, I almost came in my throat.
Try more often, maybe with a little alcohol if you drink.

Sorry for the not so correct English, but I felt obliged to register only to share my story and tell you not to be discouraged.

last week i got my first bj. and smell of my penis coming from her mouth while kissing was incredible. if a need to tell her a secret, i will tell her about my self sucking ability.

Any good ideas on how to persuade a wife or girl friend to help you try selfblow? Thanks

If you ever watch porn together, you can throw in some selfsuck scene. When it comes on, gauge her reaction and say something like "Wow! That's amazing. Sure wish I could do that! Hey, babe. Would that turn you on too?"

If you don't, maybe tell her that you heard about it and was wondering if you might even be able to do it. Again, ask her if it would be a turn on for her to watch. It's always best to try and make it look like you're interested in HER pleasure more than your own. Unless she's already quite kinky you don't want to come right out with "Hey, can you help me blow myself?" They'll see that as self-centered and excluding them. That's never good.

My (ex) wife kinda "gave me the idea" once when I was doing my normal stretching routine. Unknown to her, I was already working on getting my depth and she said I was getting such good flexibility that I could probably blow myself. That gave me the "in" with her but I suspected she always regretted bringing it up.

Later, I had a friend girl who I knew was kinky and I came right out with it with her.(It was dark so she couldn't see my beet-red face. I showed her videos of me. She was shocked! Not only had she never thought about that possibility but I think she always considered me more straight-laced. She did help me a couple times but she was never readily available and I never see her any more...