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Fuck-cess... Still no orgasm

Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:03 pm
by Darkbolt
I've been able to selffuck since about December last year... I've always had day to day sessions but I still haven't reached a selffuck orgasm. Any tips? Thank you. :D

Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 9:27 am
by Ziggurat
Just stay relaxed. There is no tricks to this... You either cum or you don't. It's all sorta random. I can usually make myself cum while self-fuckign, but unfortunately, it doesn't blast into my ass, it just sorta dribbles out of my cock once I pull out. Only once have I actually shot the whole load into my ass. Mmm... memories...

TTZ

Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 1:21 pm
by aleingang69
Yep - I gotta agree with Zig - sometimes it's just a fun pit-stop on the way to orgasm/ejaculation by other means, and other times it's "Oh, fuck, oh, that's so good, oh fuck I'm coming, I'm coming I'M COMING!!!".
I don't know why it's so different every time - some of it's attitude, and you know that trying really hard to come is pretty much the best way to guarantee that you WON"T come, so I'd say that letting go of the idea that coming up there is important is probably a good step for you, difficult as that may be. Convincing yourself that coming in your ass is totally forbidden and that it's not what you want to do is probably even better. :)

Otherwise - I've found that minimizing the lube is good. If I'm too lubed up I don't feel as much, so I try to get by with as little as possible, often just using spit.
Best of luck!
AL

Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 11:08 am
by dexter
I had done to blast in my ass. But it is, like al says: Sometimes it happens, sometime nothing. But this time without comming in ass is not less beautiful. :)

So relax and dont try it with "pressure"

Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 3:19 pm
by Darkbolt
Thanks guys. :D