How Flexible Does Your Butt Need To Be!?!

[jamesters]

I know length is not an issue for me, my penis can go way past my hole even when soft. However, I've struggled hours and hours trying to self-fuck and occasionally I pull it off, but it's rare and I never know how I finally manage. I wish I could get it down to a precise method that I could perform effortlessly every time. I'm wondering if my butt is too tight and maybe that's making it so difficult. So now can we compare anal abilities and see if flexibility plays a big role?

I recently measured the biggest dildo I can manage:

6.5 inches girth

[Ziggurat]

I don't think its ever effortless. I always work up an amazing sweat just tyring for first penetration. Then keeping it in there is a trick of finding what works as far as leverage to keep it in there, and a certain amount of relaxation to keep from clenching up and forcing it out. I've said it before and I'll say it again. I can only even attain penetration by the riding method, which requires a very specific positioning of my legs and body. A half standing, half squatting position... its really wierd to be honest. I found the best platform I could use was a reinforced scratching post that I bought for my cat....

[Narcissus]

its really wierd to be honest. I found the best platform I could use was a reinforced scratching post that I bought for my cat....

Must be a huge Maine Coon Cat. I found that line^^^ above funny...what do you do exactly with a scratching post?

For me I've been stretching my dick while fully limp since I was a teen, so I can get it in there 2" deep with zero erection. The trouble is as the blood engorges my irrational and involuntary unthinking cock, if it goes beyond the event horizon.....the tipping point.....out it pops. DAMMIT! At best my cock will do its wonders and I'll cum hard in my ass (last night I had to lick the sheets clean.......fuck yeah)

Look Jamesters it is tough for most of us. Actually you sound pretty good, just keep doing it everytime you masturbate- you'll figure yourown method in the end. It took me a long time to realize I could slam it in there flaccid and like a Chia Pet watch it grow (mirror inches away). I suppose being 7 to 8 inches is ideal, because if you have a monster yeah you can get it in there but if the blood travels too freely into the cock Zone, shit that's gotta suck.

I have to watch Al's flicks to see if even he has problems. That's right, I should be ashamed of myself for never seeing a self-suck full length flick from the master.

OT; which is AL's best?...I've heard the nantucket one is great, but I think the reviewer was woozy from watching the best porn ever. Anything critical in the collection? AL feel free....

[aleingang69]

I honestly have never had any difficulties - Once I figured out the basics (which did take a while - and I didn't even know if it was possible since I "invented" it myself - hey - wait a minute - where are all my royalty payments!) it was easy and has never been difficult for me. The mysteries of the human body - who know' why it's so different for different men?

All of my videos are, of course, masterpieces so it's hard to play favorites. "Young Man" and "Because He Can" are probably my faves, for various reasons, but I'm proud of all of'em. If you're looking for anal inspiration (sounds like a perfume, doesn't it?) Solosexual is my most butt-errific video, with solo fucking and fisting, and giant-dildo action mixed in with some solosucking and cum-slurping.

Aw hell - buy'em all - you deserve it!

AL

[Narcissus]

Awright

[Ziggurat]

Another thing I found, was that dildo stretching the same day as self-fucking is detrimental. If I give myself a good go with a dildo (mine are all bigger than I am...) then I actually find my ass is too stretched, like relaxed that is... I've never had any accidents.. And my cock just doesn't want to stay in there.... So again, it comes down to "what works for me, might not work for you"...

[D]

I don't think its ever effortless. I always work up an amazing sweat just tyring for first penetration. Then keeping it in there is a trick of finding what works as far as leverage to keep it in there, and a certain amount of relaxation to keep from clenching up and forcing it out. I've said it before and I'll say it again. I can only even attain penetration by the riding method, which requires a very specific positioning of my legs and body. A half standing, half squatting position... its really wierd to be honest. I found the best platform I could use was a reinforced scratching post that I bought for my cat....

lol, I've worked up quite a sweat too!
I found the corner of the dryer is about the right height for me, so I can have leverage in the front while I'm working my shaft with both hands from behind near my hole. I have had most of my cock inside of me, at least I think I have. Thats what it feels like anyway. Squating on both knees using the floor as leverage seems to work great for me. Gonna have to get the camera out and behind me and connect to the tv in front of me so I can see whats goin on back there...

[tyciol]

I am wondering, if the penis does get an erection, would there be a way to keep it in?

[aleingang69]

Seems like there's a lot of variety from man to man - my experience is that the business end of my cock - the part that's in my hole - gets hard enough for a good fucking but the base is, I guess, to bent to fill up with blood so it stays soft enough to allow me to keep in inside.

Al

[tyciol]

I am thinking that if the ass was loose, the penis would become erect and straighten and slip out.

For those who have accomplished this, do you find that the stigger you get, the more the sphincter muscles (and maybe glutes?) must contract to hold the penis in place?