being a bottom for anon gb

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being a bottom for anon gb

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Its always been a big fantasy of mine to be the bottom of a gangbang of a bunch of dudes. Recently through craigs list i found a group who were looking and i contacted. the main guy set up an audition i guess you could say where i met him at a motel and he fucked me. Its the second time ive ever had sex with another man and i still find it odd. There are a few moments where it feels really good but then others where i just dont really feel great at all. And i guess with most sex more feeling comes with practice but im a bit nervous to call them back to schedule an actual gangbang. Its almost not even about the physical feeling but just serving that group of people. my biggest concern is disease and its a bareback group. i love fucking myself with big dildoes or putting my own cock in my ass and finishing off but I think i am going about this the wrong way. any hints?

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The first rule about anything in life. If you're uncomfortable, then dont do it. My best advice would be find another group, preferrable a group that is not into bare-backing.

There are only three guys in this world that I'd let bust a nut inside me, two are family and one is my best friend. And of the three, only the one family guy (and he knows who he is :) ) would I allow inside me bareback... The other two... sorry boys, but I dont know where you been and that's too much risk for me.
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Yeah - I would say - PLEASE don't do this. I know a lot of guys (of various sexual orientations) have this fantasy, but if you're going to do it you need to really, really seriously consider the consequences.
If you do this you WILL become HIV positive - maybe not, but very possibly the first time. If you've done a lot of research and understand how this will change you life then maybe you'll decide it's worth it, but please do the research.
There's a huge shift toward an "HIV is no big deal - you just take the drugs" attitude, but it means constant medical monitoring for the rest of your life, possible difficulties with insanely expensive drugs and treatments, probably health problems - some of them very serious - from having constant inflammation of your immune system, and emotional effects and impacts on relationships. If you happen to get infected with a treatment-resistant form of HIV it can be very difficult to get treated, and possibly fatal.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/02/nyreg ... wanted=all

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Well said Al... Too many people have the "it won't happen to me" mentality whether they'll admit to it or not... and IT ALWAYS HAPPENS TO THEM. Then its "life ain't fair, why me??" that follows... Anonymous is prolly the worst mistake you could make...
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Yeah, I had this same feeling. It just seems so intoxicating and wonderful the idea of being fucked by a group of men. But the disease factor is what keeps me at 100 yard length from opening my ass for a bunch of men (especially bareback). I even asked the guy if there was a requirement for them to get tested and he replied "no" and "that there was really no way to be sure". And i thought "true" but then again there is a way to be sure and if they aren't taking the risk seriously and since it only takes one person (especially if im on the receiving end of all the dick) then its not worth laying down for them. Maybe ill keep searching for a professional porn outlet for these sexual type of activities. I was getting into one for a while but then school got in the way. That way I can express my sexuality in a safer environment.

thanks for the replies, kind of pushed me over the fence about definitely being safe with myself. You know how when you get really horny and would basically do anything thats super slutty. That was the mood that was swaying me to just try it. But I know Ill keep head on straight for those situations

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Many years ago, I was just a lurker here... but the community here is absolutely one of the best communities I've ever been part of online... it did not take very long for me to end up signing up for an actual account (free pics and vid too!!) and start posting... Everyone tries their best to be helpful... If we see something we dont like, we dont flame it, we just dont read it. For instance, I RARELY post in the Semen Eaters section; as I dont care for much of the content there... even though I eat my own cum a fair amount... I never post in the cam to cam personals section, but everynow and then I'll read some of them. We're all very supportive and want to help... but we also don't want to see anyone hurt themselves or someone else... so yeah, we're all gonna tell you to be careful, use your best judgement... and most of all, there are no stupid questions... :D
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