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Over the last year I have had increasingly intense fantasy's although always considered myself straight ,girls still drive me crazy but the fantasy's are so strong ,never really had much in the way of any fantasy's for 20 years or so and I am finding it confusing that I should have these in my later years when you might expect your sexual desire to be waning, in part it may be the thrill of the forbidden but they are so real and vivid it feels like somethings surfaced that's always been there ,I have a theory it could be as I get older I am very much more at ease with who I am and being comfortable with myself and not being something others expect you to be and care less about what others think . I have always had a intense interest in other cocks but no other part of the male body ,its interesting to think these could have been there all the time but suppressed to the point of never reaching consciousness ,suppressed by the culture we live in conditioned to believe its so wrong ,I have no intention of trying out my fantasy's in real life . I have no one in real life I could discuss this with openly so I thought it may be a interesting topic of conversation , so has anyone else had these thoughts ? or is it just me .Or an alternative explanation could be 7 years sucking my own cock.

Its not that unusual, or unnatural. I'm a happily married straight guy with no interest in men what so ever. But when it comes to my alone time, most people if they were aware of my habits would prolly think me gay. I have a sorta theory or motto, or what ever you want to call it: Gay and Straight are about the relationships we attain and maintain. Its not about what we do with our genitalia. I play with my cock and ass all the time, but that's just masturbation. My step brother and I, when we were younger, pretty much sucked and fucked our brains out once every week or two weeks, but we never hugged, never kissed, and he was never my boyfriend. In fact, we both had girlfriends at the time, but we were virgins to women, just not each other. I could never live intimately with another man. I couldn't love one the way that I love my wife. My step bro lives 600 km away, but if he and I were single and still needed an itch scratched, I'm pretty sure we'd do it. This is why I love dildos so much. I still get some cock in my ass action, but I don't have to cheat to get it. No.. its not the same thing, but in my opinion, its close enough.

Yeh I think your right Ziggurat ,there is no emotional content to my fantasy's ,I remember early teenage years most of my mates would in private get there cocks out for a bit of mutual masturbation non of it instigated by me ,this must go on world wide and a lot of us will have had similar experiences ,I think most guys put on a macho front about the horror of any gay insinuations ,when I truth they have similar thoughts and maybe more too.

My sexual fantasies sometimes surpise myself Last week I got to know about unusual porn genge called futanaria and it driven me crazy. that's a real thing I would watch forever. I thought I was gay but now I'm super excited to try a girl with a real dick. Do you know somebody with same kinks?

I think that you just expanded the sexual spectrum. I will say this, everything is fine as long as it does not concern the freedom of another person, if you do not violate anyone's boundaries, you have fantasies about anything.

I think you're pretty normal, my fetish can surprise you, I'm so obsessed with sex dolls that I spend my paycheck on them, five love dolls have taken over my room but I don't seem to be stopping the act.

I had to stop trying to label myself awhile back because it was driving me nuts. I don’t really consider myself bisexual, even though I’ve had several relationships with women as well as swapped head and 69ed a lot of male friends too. To me swapping head with a friend is not any different than self-sucking myself. Sucking another persons cock is exciting and different and so much easier than sucking my own and the great part is mine gets sucked really well as well. To me it’s just mutual oral assistance and the better the head I give, the better the head I get back. As far as the labels go I guess we’re just all social sexual creatures. Why do I have to assign some sort of label to it when I just like to play and interact with a friend and make my life a little more fun and a little less lonely occasionally.