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D
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Ive been exploring this 'thing' called edging.
Theres one thing I noticed. There is a LOT of pleasure involved!!
Cumming is easy. And its almost always absolute after a certain point. It seems like theres just no turning back.
I'm focussing more on the feelings leading up to that release, right after you cross that line and anticipate the cum. Its very mental, and takes a lot of concentration.
I'm actually crossing that line I think, but bringing myself back. Again, its all mental.
I do it mainly in the shower. Lets face it, there are so many slippery lotions and potions in the shower one
can hardy keep from masturbating.
One thing i HAVE noticed so far.
After edging for quite some time like this, there was one point where I just had to cum.
But the cool thing was it seemed like I was horny all over again, and started the process all over again.
lol, the things we do....... :lol:
Love it!
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AlwaysCummin
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I absolutely love the increase in cum volume produced from a good long edging session. Nothing beats ending an extended session of pleasure by blowing twice your normal load!

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I've been edging for - wow - I guess almost 40 years, and I STILL discover new things about pleasure all the time. Of course; I do have the advantage that I can edge my cock with my mouth as well as with my hands ;)
You're absolutely right about it being a mental thing at least as much as it is the physical processes of orgasm and ejaculation. One thing that's been great for me is getting beyond the ridiculous, reductionist idea that your mind/consciousness is located exclusively in your brain. Consciousness is a distributed phenomenon that our whole bodies participate in - we have neurons in our gut, and any man can tell you that we often think with our dicks ;)

Slow down. Learn to focus - masturbation + meditation = Medibation!

Keep on edging!

AL

D
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Medibation......
lol, thats awesome! :D

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I stroked it for hours before bringing myself almost there then stopping. When I could self suck I would do it with my tongue to
Fill me with loads

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I totally love edging. Try and edge every day. I can go for weeks without cumming and just keep edging. Last week, it just got too much and I could barely touch my cock when trying another edging session without getting too close to cumming. It was hot.

I also edge when self fucking. It is much more difficult to control yourself though, and I have cum so many times when I didnt plan to. It's real good fun

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I've been an edger since I was a horny adolescent, and I still love doing it.

The downside: if you want to have a healthy prostate, especially as you get older, it's been shown very clearly that ejaculating often - multiple times per week if possible - is a very good idea. I'm lucky that it's mostly been about edging within one session, with multiple ejaculations, and then having a final Big O at the end, rather than the multi-day thing that lots of men like.

https://www.menshealth.com/uk/health/se ... ncer-risk/

As I've gotten older - I'm 62 now - I've developed a classic older-man problem: the annoying need to pee one or more times during my sleep at night. It was getting worse, and my prostate was noticeably enlarging. My urologist was concerned and was talking about the possibility of some invasive testing, which I really didn't want.

I did some research and decided to try Ejaculating More Often (I've been calling it my EMO therapy), and I've been amazed by the quick, definite results. I make sure I squirt at least once in every two days, if not every day. I was often cumming much less before I started EMO - mostly because I have a lover who really loves to have me shoot a big, multi-day load into him.

Within 2 weeks of starting, I went from having to piss 2 to 3 times most nights, back down to zero to one time most of the time. I still occasionally have nights with more, but it's been a huge, definite change.

So: not to discourage anyone from doing what feels best, but - it may have longer-term effects on your manly bits!

Al

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aleingang69 wrote:
Mon Feb 21, 2022 11:09 am
I've been an edger since I was a horny adolescent, and I still love doing it.

The downside: if you want to have a healthy prostate, especially as you get older, it's been shown very clearly that ejaculating often - multiple times per week if possible - is a very good idea. I'm lucky that it's mostly been about edging within one session, with multiple ejaculations, and then having a final Big O at the end, rather than the multi-day thing that lots of men like.

https://www.menshealth.com/uk/health/se ... ncer-risk/

As I've gotten older - I'm 62 now - I've developed a classic older-man problem: the annoying need to pee one or more times during my sleep at night. It was getting worse, and my prostate was noticeably enlarging. My urologist was concerned and was talking about the possibility of some invasive testing, which I really didn't want.

I did some research and decided to try Ejaculating More Often (I've been calling it my EMO therapy), and I've been amazed by the quick, definite results. I make sure I squirt at least once in every two days, if not every day. I was often cumming much less before I started EMO - mostly because I have a lover who really loves to have me shoot a big, multi-day load into him.

Within 2 weeks of starting, I went from having to piss 2 to 3 times most nights, back down to zero to one time most of the time. I still occasionally have nights with more, but it's been a huge, definite change.

So: not to discourage anyone from doing what feels best, but - it may have longer-term effects on your manly bits!

Al
Hi Al, wow, that is very interesting. I had no idea. Thanks for the helpful info.

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I love edging but have not been edging for very long. As you all have done, I just masturbated to orgasm when ever the mood hit. Over the years, especially with the free porn on the internet, I noticed that I would delay my orgasm longer and longer. This is at a time when I did not know about edging. Anyway, in a period of a few years, I started to develop a technique where I get to the edge and then relaxed, I would edge without knowing it. Once I learned that this was edging, I realized how much I loved it and the feeling of my hard cock in my hand. So now, maybe 10 years on, I almost always edge and do this for a min of 2 hours and sometimes for as many as 12 to 16 hours.
I enjoy having my cock sucked as much as anyone else but sucking a cock and swallowing the cum is on another level.

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