Posted by Shamman (68.43.80.198) on July 15, 2004 at 15:18:49:
This thought came to me as I was responding to other mssgs...
Has anyone noticed an overall improvement in their sexual pleasure or 'performance' since they started s-s'ing???
I have always been good at giving a woman head but I truely think that since i've been giving myself head that I have improved. I think it might be an increased sensitivity to her responses ???
I dont wanna go into my whole past but it took me and my ex-wife a couple years before we could 69 like we were actually doing ourselves. (If you havent experienced this, I'm sorry for you. I think it's better than genital sex!!!) I recently started with a woman after over 4 years of celibacy and on our 3rd 69 we hit it! I know it wasnt her because she isnt very good at head yet-I have a lot of teaching to do. But when I licked her it felt like I was licking myself.
So, I'm wondering if anyone else has noticed an improvement in oral or other sexual pleasure once they have been s-s'ing awhile...
Shamman