Posted by Sean (64.72.38.155) on December 20, 2004 at 18:37:56:
In Reply to: You guys are dispicable! posted by Beverly on December 10, 2004 at 20:14:24:
It appears taht you have mistaken this form of masturbation for adultry. It's no secret that married couples continue to masturbate. This is simply another form of masturbation.
I can also assure you that there are several "straight" guys out there (myself included) who love self sucking but wouldn't mess with another man. It's about the fantasy of sucking my own penis that turns me on. I have not desire to mess with another guy.
All of my former girlfriends know about my little talent. Most of them could care less which has always suprised me. I did date one girl who found it somewhat interesting however but she never joined in.
If you've ever masturbated before, then you really should consider comparing it to that. IF you could lick your own clit, would you? Most women never even consider the thought because it's such an impossibility but your tounge doing exactly what you wanted?
I think more than anything, your husband should have been honest with you about his talent. There is really nothing wrong with this. From your response, I sence that you are quick to condemn him for being an adulter and label him as a gay man. Neither of these things may be true.
As a college professor, you should be more educated than the average person. Why don't you sit down with him and talk about it in a calm manner where you do not name call but instead try to understand why he does it. That's a good place to start.
If this makes you sick, I would recommend you try to be a little more open minded about this topic. IT's not common simply because most men can't do it. If he can, he's one of the lucky ones. I assure you, if we all could suck our dick, we would.
Sean