Posted by tso (65.49.84.165) on July 31, 2004 at 03:13:03:
[Reposted from before the board crash.]
Posted by Jojo on February 22, 2004 at 23:34:42:
In Reply to: Re: It's been 34 years.... posted by N.E. Dave on February 22, 2004 at 21:32:01:
: : ...since I sucked myself. I'm 47 now and I want to do it again. I've tried a few times, but my flexibility is not what it was at 13. But then, I haven't been motivated in a long time, because my ex-wife always would do 69 and sometimes she'd just blow me away while I did nothing but go crazy. We've been divorced for a year, but still having sex... I need to have self-sucking as an alternative to her.
: : So I'm motivated now, and I think I have the right attitude (I think I can, I think I can). It's been a wunnerfull revelation to find this site. And I used to do yoga exercises in my 20s and 30s. With all these things in my favor - what doth hold me back?
: : My main concern as I go through the stretching process to prepare for the event is that I have an old neck injury. My position when I was 13 was the plough -- using the wall to push against I forced my torso to bend beyond it's limits. (A sweet memory I long to repeat.) I ended up with most of my weight on my neck, if I remember correctly.
: : Any advice on how to minimize the risk to my neck would be appreciated. If there's anyone else who does self-sucking now, after having sustained an injury in the past, I'd like to hear how you manage.
: : I want to hum when I suck, not scream.
: I'm 51 now and I started trying in the early 1990's. Just like you, I used to do it when I was in my teen years. I stopped in my twenties and began thinking about it around 1991. It didn't take long for me to lick my dick but I did pull muscles in my lower back a few times trying to reach too far. Go slow!
: I've learned to warm up by stretching and breathing slowly. Sometimes I can just tell that I'm not limber enough to s.s. on a given day. Yesterday I got almost half of my dick in my mouth but today I have to rest my back muscles.
: Did you check out Al's tutorial on self sucking? It is the best advice you can find about getting there. I had trouble with my neck last year from putting too much pressure on it in the plough position. I now lay on one or two pillows to keep my neck free and make sure to pull my hips more toward my chest than my head. It works for me but you may need to experiment (slowly!) to find what works for you.
: Good Luck and stay with it!
Hey Dave,
Thanks for the advice. I have been studying the tutorials and what you have said is taken to heart. Patience to prevent becoming a patient... It's very encouraging to hear that I'm not the only one to come back to this at middle-age!
I particularly appreciate that you can tell you're not limber enough on a given day. This definitely requires that I listen to what my body is telling me. I know from my previous yoga experience that this involves a lot of deprogramming of old mental attitudes stored in muscle tissue. Attitudes that took years to cement in place won't go away overnight. But, I do have my goal in sight!
Thanks for the encouragement...