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Was this edging?
Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 2:39 pm
by awtoeman
Ive seen edging come up a few times here in SS. Al seems to currently practice this technique.
Ive had something happen a few times and it ONLY involves a woman. This happened the other night: So Im sucking on my cock and at the same time, a lady friend is stroking it. And just about as she is going to make my cock cum all over my face and in my mouth, I orgasm however, no cum comes out? The funny thing though, is that it is a full on orgasm, but just with no semen? And it ONLY happens with SS, and ONLY when I am performing it with a woman's assistance.
Usually about a minute or so, I will try to cum again in a non SS position, then all the cum shoots out. Am in experiencing edging? And if so, is this unhealthy?
Re: Was this edging?
Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 9:01 pm
by aleingang69
Hey - lucky man - sounds like fun!
Edging is usually thought of as the inverse of what you're talking about - I can squirt a bunch of times with semi-orgasms and then eventually have a final full orgasm with ejaculation. Not exactly what you're talking about but related - be interesting if you could experiment with it and see if you can have multiple dry orgasms before squirting. I think you're in the edging spectrum but maybe closer to the extended or multiple male orgasms that tantra practitioners talk about.
I can't imagine anything unhealthy about it - just sounds like you're lucky!
Al
Re: Was this edging?
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:42 am
by vegetix
That is called retrograde ejaculation. Read up. Always good to talk to a doctor about such things. The internet is a great source of info but a professional is always better.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retrograde_ejaculation
Re: Was this edging?
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 10:31 am
by aleingang69
Thanks Vegetix,
Interesting link but I'm not convinced it's applicable here. Not saying it's not happening, but if he's shooting a full load a few minutes later it seems much less likely. If it's only happening in this one very specific sexual situation I think it's safe to ignore the (to me excessive) pathologizing by the Wikipedia article of something that can happen to men for a variety of reasons and which is usually not a problem.
So once again I'd say - don't worry; enjoy it!
Al
Re: Was this edging?
Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:42 pm
by awtoeman
ya, would have to concur with Al. I read the page and it just did not apply. It has only happened twice in my life and ONLY when the women was jerking my penis while it was in my mouth. I think it has to do with the extreme position that im putting my body into. I think i might be cutting off some kind of circulation or something? And yes, once I get out of SS position, i then can bust a HUGE load all over the place

Re: Was this edging?
Posted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:31 am
by vegetix
awtoeman wrote:ya, would have to concur with Al. I read the page and it just did not apply. It has only happened twice in my life and ONLY when the women was jerking my penis while it was in my mouth. I think it has to do with the extreme position that im putting my body into. I think i might be cutting off some kind of circulation or something? And yes, once I get out of SS position, i then can bust a HUGE load all over the place

Retrograde ejaculation is not something to be feared and it can be self induced. If you have ever pressed below your cock to stop your semen from coming out that is a form of retrograde ejaculation. Some people do it intentionally. I would say above all else that it is the position. It's a basic matter of pressure. If it take more force for a fluid to pass through hole A than it does hole B it is going to take the path of least resistance. The semen needs to go somewhere. It does not just evaporate. If it is not coming out then it is finding another path and there is only one other path to find.
I am not basing that on the wiki article but it was the most readily accessible for linking. If you will note I stated that the best person to ever consult on such a matter is a medical professional and not any internet sources. Myself included.