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I love to read how your quests for more depth are going. Mainly to compare my progress. The last few years I went from taking an hour stretching to lick my cock. Now it’s less than a minute. About 15 minutes more to get my lips just beyond the tip. Another 15 minutes to get another inch. That was a great accomplishment because my lips can feel that they are actually wrapped around my cock. Each time I get there I get a jolt of pleasure with a great desire to go deeper.
It feels that daily ss with greater muscle force is getting me more depth. I’m a C style fan. And I’m able to exert maximum force with my forearms wrapped under my legs close to my ass. So far no negative effects with pulling upwards with maximum force.
I believe that progress comes quickly with increasing efforts.
Love to hear how long it takes from licking your tip to maximum depth.

Dude, these days, if I can't go all the way, right away, I'm having a stiff day or I ate too much. Sounds too good to be true, but it's real.
I also put muscle into pulling with my arms wrapped around, used to go around above the knees, but near my ass is better, and that was a level up for me on depth.
Be careful with putting force in though, I had muscle injuries a couple times (neck, shoulder) and had to take WEEKS off of ss, which nearly drove me insane.

The time it takes to get that depth, the way you get more by spending time curled up,
I think part of how I got that time down, in addition to just getting practice, was taking elasticity breaks: periodically I uncurl, lay flat, arch my back the other way, and then curling up again. I swear up and down that it helped me get warm-up time down to (ideally) basically nothing.

I'm super grateful for it, these days I get in plow and relax, and I pull my hips down,
I suck my soft cock into my mouth and I get hard and do most of the work with my hips until I'm swallowing my cum.

I'm curious if anyone else does the elasticity break, or if it helps anyone else.
I know I was reluctant to uncurl in the middle of a session, for a long time, seemed counterintuitive, but it's a game changer imo.

Love your curling up and reversing technique. Will try it out. Also on my try list is using a dildo and/or prostate vibe to see if it affects depth. Ever try those? I’ll stay with my C position for now but will try the sitting C on a chair rather than my usual sitting C on the floor. Any opinions on the mechanics of those two?

I often uncurl every so often too. I do glute bridges usually. It seems to work for me, but then again, I'm only a novice

Ive been self-sucking for well over ten years now and I can tell you if you don’t keep your weight down, stay physically fit, keep to your stretching routine, and keep up with your cardio, you definitely lose not only your flexibility, but also overall session quality. For me it’s kind of like what you hear about heroin junkies trying to recapture that first perfect high, only with me it’s trying to maintain and reproduce that one exquisitely perfect session I had in 2020, where my lips can effortlessly kiss my pelvic mound repeatedly while deepthroating, where my body is comfortable and telling me to keep going, where I’m keeping my breathing rate around 24-26 shallow breaths/minute, where I’m feeling each distinct endorphin pulse through my body with every stroke, which I’m delivering at about 20-25/min, and where I can stay down more than 15 minutes at a time without the need to stretch out, followed by a screaming, body-shivering orgasm and a tasty ejaculation at the end. It was a session that went well over a full 90 minutes of serious cock-sucking. For me that’s my gold-standard that I’m always shooting for reproducing again. All that takes an enormous amount of regular self-maintenance though as we know, even on the non-self-suck days. When I cut corners, get lazy, don’t go for a run, eat like shit, or don’t stretch like I should beforehand, I’m really shoot myself in the foot when I’m “going down on myself”, lol.

Currently I can only manage to take a little over 6” of my full 8” shaft, so I need to drop five pounds, run an extra day every week, and do more yoga so I can get back to where I want to be again.

i’ve been focusing on range of motion at the gym, perfecting muscle use outside the gym and keeping my muscles flexed and toned throughout the day. this helps when it comes down to selfsucking because i can use my powerful back muscles to pull my torso down and place my face above my crotch. recently i’ve had some amazing sessions, the best i’ve had ever, with some great depth and ease of stretching that allows me to fully explore my cock with my mouth. i’m 26 and have been selfing for almost 10 years. i can’t wait to see where it will go from here.

Finally got to the point where my lips hit my cock base and when I suck and drag my tongue upward to the cock head it produces the most exquisite pleasure. Next goal is to stay in that bottom position longer and get more than five or six suck and tongue reps at a time. I’m sure that extra suck time will get me to cum hands free for the first time.
This super pleasure only occurs when my cock is only half or less erect. But I’ll take that any day. Anyone else experience that softer cock is better feeling?
Progress is best in my C position with maximum arm strength.

Oldjoesmokes2004 wrote: ↑

Wed Feb 12, 2025 1:10 am

Love your curling up and reversing technique. Will try it out. Also on my try list is using a dildo and/or prostate vibe to see if it affects depth. Ever try those? I’ll stay with my C position for now but will try the sitting C on a chair rather than my usual sitting C on the floor. Any opinions on the mechanics of those two?

I do enjoy a toy against my prostate during a session
I don't think it makes a depth difference, but it feels awesome.
C isn't my first choice, but it's the most convenient if I can't use a bed,
and some chairs work better than others, but I'll periodically stand up and stretch backwards like sun salutation, and I'll go forward and touch my toes too, I don't think it's as good as laying down to get that backward stretch, but it does help.
Once in a while I'll have a really fantastic session in C or X,
I had a mind blowing time going all the way in C in an office chair about a week ago.
I'm not sure what makes the difference.
Also yeah a soft cock seems to produce a dinstinct pleasure, for me I think it's that it's stretchy so it's easy to pull a lot of skin into the mouth and suck it in and out delicately.
Raging hard is great too haha.

I neglected to mention that I almost always stretch beforehand, for probably about 15 minutes or so, but then I'm starting the session with the warmup period basically eliminated.
If its a spontaneous cold start it might take me 20 or 30 minutes to get my depth.

I'm rooting for you polevaulter, you can do it. I think we're all pursuing that perfect session.
May the perfect session become the standard session.

I'm ecstatic with my ability currently, but I'm still working on some things, like endurance and depth in X, and endurance for headbobbing, making slow progress I think.

Oldjoesmokes, I want to hear about it when you achieve hands free!

College, cheers to all time highs =D

I used to self suck from mid teens until my mid twenties.
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I used to dream about it when I was younger and didn’t think it was possible as I tried.
Then I saw a late night adult documentary on Uk Channel 4 and a guy talks about it.
I was shocked and I was glad too as now I knew it was possible.
This was all before internet was a thing.
Got older and one day in the shower I had an erection, I can remember leaning over and looking down and just thinking, “he doesn’t look that far,” stuck my tongue out and I grazed the tip.
That caught me off guard and I was in shock and so happy.
I managed to touch it with my tongue, could I do more..?
Took me a further month of trying to figure out techniques to self suck and finally I got past licking the tip switching between standing and sitting, to suck the tip to getting my lips and tongue past the head onto the shaft and suck my cock.

Only reason I stopped, sadly was due to getting into a relationship.

I went from self sucking weekly to sometimes daily to not at all.

I remember trying to attempt it now and again but found I struggled to reach the tip.

And it took a lot of effort.

So I figured my autofellatio days were behind me, never to to do it again.

In my 40s now and decided i haven’t had good head in a long time.
Could I do it again?


I managed to only lick the tip.
Ok.
Kept stretching and being mindful of my food intake and time of day.
Kept trying.
Got a bit further.
Finally I managed to wrap my lips and tongue over the head suck.
The strain was immense.
So I had to take a break.
But I knew I could self suck again.

I’m trying to keep on top of it.
At least once a week.

Happy to be back into it again.

My dildo assist trial didn’t seem to help to get deeper sucking. However my experience taking my ED pill got my erection to last longer and got that great full cock feeling with lips encompassing my shaft. The pill also helped maintain my cock length even after my cock began to lose girth after about 15 sucking minutes.


I still can’t get to that tingle point without hands which is my short term goal. I think another few weeks of serious stretching will help me get there.

Another technique I found is to use a stretch exercise cord. I wrap a loop first around my cock then 4 or 5 coils around my balls, pull it tight and tie it. The coils around my balls serves to raise them and push cock and balls upward ready to suck. It’s like a super cock ring. Any of you do this?

status update: i came by deep throating myself for the first time in several months last night!!

i have been off of my physical job for a while again and as cold weather hit i became even less active. unfortunately i hadn't thought about my calorie intake and was still eating as much as i had been through the summer when i was 'working it all off', and before i realized it i had put on 10# (~4.5kg). i went from deep throating most nights to struggling to get the head in my mouth.

once i realized what was happening i cut back on how much i was eating (portion control does wonders for me!), and very slowly the weight started coming back down which in turn has been helping my sessions. over time it became less of a struggle to get more of my cock.

a few weeks ago i got to the point where i can take my soft cock in my mouth, which is a game changer for my sessions...but challenging for me as a 'grower'. rather than straining for more depth, i relaxed and enjoyed being able to get about half-way down comfortably and stay there while breathing shallow...teasing myself orally for several minutes at a time before i had to come up to relax my back and get a deep breath, then going right back down.

this week that resulted in two nights where i orally edged myself for close to an hour before cumming, and there were a couple nights that i did some thrusting where i might have hit my throat...i have a hard time telling where the back of my mouth ends and the top of my throat starts, but it was close if i didn't.

and then last night was one of those great sessions. one of the nearly hour long ones with lots of relaxed edging. i had stopped for a quick break and gone soft, so i got back into position and started again. i used my hands to stuff nearly all of my soft cock into my mouth, lightly gripping around the base with my teeth to keep it from sliding back out. then my mouth works its magic, varying the suction...squashing myself against the roof of my mouth...licking all around...undulating my tongue along my cock, which by this point is growing its way down my throat. definitely down my throat, i gagged on it for the first time since last summer!

at this point i know that if i start to thrust in and out i'm not going to be able to get all the way back down, so i just hold my cock there in my throat and work it over with the muscles in my throat and the back of my tongue...that is like the pinnacle for me, just lying back relaxed while my throat drives me insane with ecstasy.

i did it for as long as i could but it wasn't quite enough to get me off, so i came up for a quick breather then shoved it back down...again using my hands to pull and stuff the last of it in before working it over some more. closer this time...i felt like i could reach an orgasm, but would probably have to 'pull out' as soon as it started (and that wasn't what i wanted!) one last breather, then back down...i had it this time...oh yeah, i had it alright! working those muscles for a couple more minutes i finally felt my cum pulsing in my throat as i milked my cock for as long as i could before i had to come up...still sooner than i wanted, but to be fair it might not be enough if i could spend the rest of my life doing that.

fuck yeah...*that* is what i have been missing!

Great progress Happy. Another testimonial to persistence that is essential to gaining maximum ss pleasure.

I’m getting close to my goal of getting 1/2 cock in my mouth within one hour of starting a ss session. Getting my entire cock head in my mouth is getting easier every time. I’m still trying to stay down longer while sucking to get that elusive hands free cum.
I’m still finding the most pleasure in sucking while only half an erection.

Another recent milestone is reaching the bottom of my cock with my tongue and twirling it all around especially along the underside.

The C position is still yielding the most improvement for me with maximum arm strength applied.