Help me show my girlfriend !

fresh86 · Post by **fresh86** » Thu Jan 29, 2009 1:36 am

If you saw my other post from a while ago, I told my girlfriend of a year and a half about my talent of selfsuck. I want to show her but she doesnt seem to be that interested. She saw a clip that i made and that is about it other than one time she saw me lick the head. What would really turn me on is to take turns with her sucking. So my question is do you think she will change her feelings about it if she sees me do it? And how should i get her interested? It seems when she has a few drinks shes a little less uptight so maybe that will help.... Thanks

seahorses · Post by **seahorses** » Fri Jan 30, 2009 5:32 am

When it comes to sexual tastes and preferences like DNA and fingerprints, weâ€™re all different. Sometimes the difference can be minimal, almost immeasurable, but still different. If this is really important to you then you need to discuss it with your girlfriend and get her true prospective; it could be something that might be a turnoff for her. If it is then itâ€™s up to you how the relationship goes; either you compromise and stick with it and just enjoy the fantasy â€“ which can often be an anticlimax when acted out in reality, anyway - or dump your girlfriend and find someone who shares your interest.

awtoeman · Post by **awtoeman** » Thu Feb 05, 2009 11:36 pm

DUMP HER ASS!!!!

Post by **aleingang69** » Fri Feb 06, 2009 9:47 am

"I'm going to get her drunk so she'll do what I want" doesn't sound so good to me - gross manipulation at best. If you two tend to get drunk together anyway and it just happens in the normal course of things I guess that's a little more of a gray area.
Negotiation isn't always easy but being honest with her and with yourself is the ideal. Is this a deal-breaker for you? Would you leave her because of it?
Maybe you can approach it in stages - tell her you'd really enjoy watching her get herself off while you jerk off. If she can get into that maybe you can slowly introduce some solosucking into it - watch her play with her self, tell her how hot it's getting you, lick some precum off the head of your cock and then back off until the next time. Make it fun, not something that you're demanding of her that she doesn't have any interest in.
Good luck - let us know how it goes!
AL

fresh86 · Post by **fresh86** » Fri Feb 06, 2009 7:18 pm

Thanks Al, I was not trying to sound like i am going to force her to like it. I just sense that she is hornier after a few drinks and likes to try new things. She likes to watch me masturbate, so i will try that and slowly get into the self suck stuff. Im gonna give it a try tonight. Wish me luck! haha