Technique's
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Technique's
Hey guy's could you all tell us about the technique's you use?
technique
Regarding SF:
For me, I can't do the technique usually displayed by many. I lay out some towels near the edge of the bed, and pull cock around sac, carefully setting down, and then lift the right cheek over which brings anus closer.
If anus won't dilate, I found it best to do a partial fisting using something like Abolene. But as time has gone on, anus dilates easily without this prep work. At this point I can just use some lube (there is something great called May long or something ... an anal cream off Amazon, that gives an unbelievable feeling), placing some on one finger and massaging first outside lip, and then diving in a bit. Anus begins to soften and dilate.
I bring cock around balls (cock is not lubed ...), and holding it in the furthest stretched back state with right hand, reach around with left hand to hold head back, sit down softly on towel, then reach under towel with left hand to cup cock just behind head, maybe an inch or two back. Think "open" like you are telling anus to dilate, and rub cock head on anus with soft moves to seduce it. If you try to force things it usually does not help. Anus will open up to receive more sensual sensations. After sitting down (I lean forward as I do that), the towel will hold cock in place so you can remove right hand. Reach up under right ass cheek near anus and then pull out to the side to cause that cheek to be pulled to the side. Think "open" for anus so it remains as open as possible. But do not do the "bear down" thing others suggest. That is being forceful, and you can wind up with a hemmoroid.
When anus is dilated and cock is diving in deeper, remove left hand quickly and then pull first left cheek outward, then right cheek again, thinking "open" all the while to keep anus as open as possible. Now you can SF hands-free, which means you can lightly touch nipples to amplify feelings at cock. Keep thinking "open" with each stroke, to keep anus in that state.
You have to experiment with movements of hips, etc to get the most stroke, but do a sensual dance on cock, enjoying each inward stroke. Many should be able to climax this way. For those who have a problem climaxing, you can take powdered L-histidine three times a day to increase histamine levels. (High histamine causes PE, low causes DE.) If you have a low histamine condition, there are natural supplements like B3, Brewer's yeast (which is the best way to get folate .
If you have any questions or suggestions for improving any of these steps ... or find a better lube ... please post.
One thing I have started doing recently is to use saliva on cock to get me to a heightened state, then place saliva on anus instead of some other lube. That is most likely the best lube, and going from that to the May long (or whatever it's called) ointment puts me at an even higher state.
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To have a temporary length and width gain:
Use a penis pump (there's a flared bottom one from Boston pump that works best -- be sure to pull sac down when placing it on) with a reasonable level of pressure (5 to 7 ... not beyond the orange zone), and have it on for no more than 5 minutes.
If you still can't get your cock back far enough, I've found that you can over time get the tissues (tendons, etc) to allow for more "rearward" headway. Here is the best way I found to accomplish that:
Five years ago I couldn't stretch the tip of my cock past the anus. Now I can stretch it around 1.5 to 2" past it.
I learned what I could off various elongation sites, and came up with a routine that doesn't cause injury yet is effective to increase "rearward" headway:
I bring cock around sac as I am standing with legs spread, and grasp somewhat behind head with one hand behind me. Tissues will elongate over time, but if you study physical therapy, the progress is referred to as "creep." It is in such small increments that most guys give up after a few weeks. It takes about 90 days to gain 1/8 to 1/4". It took me about 5 years to get to the point where the tip of the head goes past the anus about 1.5" or more. When stretching, remember to never do it when tissues are cold. Ideally tissues should be something like 5 degrees above normal body temp. There are infrared lights at Lowes, etc, and I used those for a time. Just don't burn yourself! The idea is to just warm the area, not melt it. But I have done stretching without any type of heat, as long as I am at least "warm." A bit of massage around the area helps as well in more than one way. When you stretch, do it in small increments and then for no longer than something like a count of 20. Pull lightly to 5, then a bit more to 10, etc. You'll find this therapy confirmed if you do enough research, but the idea is to reach your goal without injury of any type. Remember that nerves in the cock are important, and you do not want to reduce sensitivity! You can switch off from one hand to the other. I have found it best to have cock clean and free of oils, sweat, etc. Also hands.
For me, I can't do the technique usually displayed by many. I lay out some towels near the edge of the bed, and pull cock around sac, carefully setting down, and then lift the right cheek over which brings anus closer.
If anus won't dilate, I found it best to do a partial fisting using something like Abolene. But as time has gone on, anus dilates easily without this prep work. At this point I can just use some lube (there is something great called May long or something ... an anal cream off Amazon, that gives an unbelievable feeling), placing some on one finger and massaging first outside lip, and then diving in a bit. Anus begins to soften and dilate.
I bring cock around balls (cock is not lubed ...), and holding it in the furthest stretched back state with right hand, reach around with left hand to hold head back, sit down softly on towel, then reach under towel with left hand to cup cock just behind head, maybe an inch or two back. Think "open" like you are telling anus to dilate, and rub cock head on anus with soft moves to seduce it. If you try to force things it usually does not help. Anus will open up to receive more sensual sensations. After sitting down (I lean forward as I do that), the towel will hold cock in place so you can remove right hand. Reach up under right ass cheek near anus and then pull out to the side to cause that cheek to be pulled to the side. Think "open" for anus so it remains as open as possible. But do not do the "bear down" thing others suggest. That is being forceful, and you can wind up with a hemmoroid.
When anus is dilated and cock is diving in deeper, remove left hand quickly and then pull first left cheek outward, then right cheek again, thinking "open" all the while to keep anus as open as possible. Now you can SF hands-free, which means you can lightly touch nipples to amplify feelings at cock. Keep thinking "open" with each stroke, to keep anus in that state.
You have to experiment with movements of hips, etc to get the most stroke, but do a sensual dance on cock, enjoying each inward stroke. Many should be able to climax this way. For those who have a problem climaxing, you can take powdered L-histidine three times a day to increase histamine levels. (High histamine causes PE, low causes DE.) If you have a low histamine condition, there are natural supplements like B3, Brewer's yeast (which is the best way to get folate .
If you have any questions or suggestions for improving any of these steps ... or find a better lube ... please post.
One thing I have started doing recently is to use saliva on cock to get me to a heightened state, then place saliva on anus instead of some other lube. That is most likely the best lube, and going from that to the May long (or whatever it's called) ointment puts me at an even higher state.
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
To have a temporary length and width gain:
Use a penis pump (there's a flared bottom one from Boston pump that works best -- be sure to pull sac down when placing it on) with a reasonable level of pressure (5 to 7 ... not beyond the orange zone), and have it on for no more than 5 minutes.
If you still can't get your cock back far enough, I've found that you can over time get the tissues (tendons, etc) to allow for more "rearward" headway. Here is the best way I found to accomplish that:
Five years ago I couldn't stretch the tip of my cock past the anus. Now I can stretch it around 1.5 to 2" past it.
I learned what I could off various elongation sites, and came up with a routine that doesn't cause injury yet is effective to increase "rearward" headway:
I bring cock around sac as I am standing with legs spread, and grasp somewhat behind head with one hand behind me. Tissues will elongate over time, but if you study physical therapy, the progress is referred to as "creep." It is in such small increments that most guys give up after a few weeks. It takes about 90 days to gain 1/8 to 1/4". It took me about 5 years to get to the point where the tip of the head goes past the anus about 1.5" or more. When stretching, remember to never do it when tissues are cold. Ideally tissues should be something like 5 degrees above normal body temp. There are infrared lights at Lowes, etc, and I used those for a time. Just don't burn yourself! The idea is to just warm the area, not melt it. But I have done stretching without any type of heat, as long as I am at least "warm." A bit of massage around the area helps as well in more than one way. When you stretch, do it in small increments and then for no longer than something like a count of 20. Pull lightly to 5, then a bit more to 10, etc. You'll find this therapy confirmed if you do enough research, but the idea is to reach your goal without injury of any type. Remember that nerves in the cock are important, and you do not want to reduce sensitivity! You can switch off from one hand to the other. I have found it best to have cock clean and free of oils, sweat, etc. Also hands.
