Can't Insert
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Can't Insert
i'm having trouble getting my dick into my ass. i can stretch it far enough, i'm pretty sure i'm not too hard, i think i'm just not loose enough. do i need to buckle down and get a plug for maximum loosening?
Hello,
MOST of the time it's because you're too nervous, Try the "sitting" position and see if that works (on your chair, floor, bed, bathtub..) but remember to stay calm. Take your mind off it while you're pushing (yes I know how incredibly hard that is), but after you get it in the first time, you'll know what to expect and will be able to (over time) insert it without even loosening it (with fingers, or toy).
MOST of the time it's because you're too nervous, Try the "sitting" position and see if that works (on your chair, floor, bed, bathtub..) but remember to stay calm. Take your mind off it while you're pushing (yes I know how incredibly hard that is), but after you get it in the first time, you'll know what to expect and will be able to (over time) insert it without even loosening it (with fingers, or toy).
the solution was being 100% flaccid. it was like you said. it took almost no stretching and only a small amount of lube, non of which was on my penis. now that i've done it once, i'd like to experience it again and enjoy it as long as possible. the first time was more about making sure i got my rocks off and not really taking in the whole experience. sad thing is that i made another attempt and had no luck
maybe i'll have more success soon. is it simply just SF'ing or are there other things or techniques i should try while enjoying myself?

1) DON'T sniff poppers, that's stupid.
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that's where the deep penetration comes into play.
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Going back to what I said, relaxation. However you can get it in while flacid, combine those both for a great experiance and insertation. After you get it in a few times, remember to try semi hardsad thing is that i made another attempt and had no luck
