ejaculation/orgasm control
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ejaculation/orgasm control
I've always wanted to know how to ejaculate without orgams, and vice versa. I've done the kegels thing fairly frequently, although not on a specific schedule, just now and then, and i've tried clamping down on the "PC" muscle just before ejaculating. The sensation i got from it was not only not pleasurable, but incredibly painful. I'd like to know if orgasm/ejaculate control is total bullshit, or if i'm doing it wrong.
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aleingang69
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It's hard to generalize about any of this stuff because every man has his own unique sexual response patterns. I think ejaculation without (full) orgasm is relatively easy - it you "edge" - bring yourself to the edge of orgasm and stop before you go over the "I can't stop" point - you'll probably end up squirting a bit whether you want to or not. In my experience it doesn't have to involve the PC muscles that you exercise with Kegels, but it can. From there it's just a matter of playing with it to see what you can do with it. Fun!
Orgasm without the squirt is much more complex - do other guys have thoughts they want to share? Some claim that it's not possible - that you're ejaculating anyway but that it's just squirting back into your bladder ( a retrograde ejaculation).
Pain (or at least pain that you don't enjoy) isn't much fun in a sexual context, but it may be something you need to find your way through if you're really committed to exploring this. One thing to explore: people talk as though there's only one set of muscles down there to clench (the PC muscles) but if you pay attention you'll be amazed by the subtlety you can find - try just flexing your cock without clenching your butthole - it's fun!
AL
Orgasm without the squirt is much more complex - do other guys have thoughts they want to share? Some claim that it's not possible - that you're ejaculating anyway but that it's just squirting back into your bladder ( a retrograde ejaculation).
Pain (or at least pain that you don't enjoy) isn't much fun in a sexual context, but it may be something you need to find your way through if you're really committed to exploring this. One thing to explore: people talk as though there's only one set of muscles down there to clench (the PC muscles) but if you pay attention you'll be amazed by the subtlety you can find - try just flexing your cock without clenching your butthole - it's fun!
AL
