Autofellatio, Autoerotic to the point of Asexual?

[lovepre]

Could there be a high percentage of asexual males who self-suck? I think yes.
From Wikipedia: Alfred Kinsey explained asexual as a category as people who do not have overt physical encounter with individuals of either sex. The following percentages of the population he assigned as asexual:
Unmarried females=14-19%. Married females= 1-3%. Previously married females=5-8%. Unmarried males=3-4%. Married males=0%. Previously married males=1-2%.

Another study that gave empirical data about asexual was published in 1983 by Paula Nurius. It concluded that 5% of the males and 10% of the females are asexual.


Canadian sexuality researcher Dr. Anthony Bogaert, who explored the asexual demographic in a series of studies believed that the percentages are probably too low. 30% of people contacted chose not to answer the surveys. Since less sexually experienced people are more likely to refuse to participate in studies about sexuality, and asexuals tend to be less sexually experienced than non-asexuals, it is likely that asexuals were overrepresented in the 30% who did not participate.

The Kinsey Institute sponsored another small survey on the topic in 2007, which found that self-identified asexuals “did not differ consistently from non-asexuals in their desire to masturbate".

What I say: Autofellatio is the best form of masturbation there is? And when you get good at it, you might say “I have the ability to satisfy myself sexually, so why do I need all the problems that often come from sex with partners”? The autoerotic person recognizes sexual desire, but prefers to satisfy it alone.

What do you guys think, is there a high number of asexuals self-suckers? If you are one, tell us about it.

[aleingang69]

Interesting question. I've had lots and lots of sex with others so I don't fit into what they're calling the asexual category.
Using the word asexual this way bugs me - if people are only having sex with themselves it doesn't mean they're asexual, it means they're solosexual. Asexuality should be used to to refer to the practice or orientation of having no sexual interest or preference. Solosex is sex!
AL

[lovepre]

Yea, I agree with you Al. I think the term "asexual" should not be used for both types: people who have NO sex at all, and people who only have sex with there self. They say having no sexual interest for either man or woman is asexual, it doesn’t matter if you masturbate, self-suck, self-fuck or not.

I am not asexual or solo-sexual now, but I may become that way someday. Any asexuals/solo-sexual want to jump in and tell us how you became that way? Or were you born that way?

[Ziggurat]

I coined the phrase "solo-sexual" on my Ed the Sock appearance. I gave credit to this site, because I'm pretty sure I read it here before saying it on TV. When I was asked to define it, I said, "An individual that has sex with themselves." When they asked, "Isn't that just masturbation?" I replied "Technically yes, but it is masturbation taken to a higher plane of stimulation. As in, penetration of the self with ones own body parts, or a sexual encounter with an ultra-realistic sexual-partner substitute. I.e.: a Realdoll (male or female). After all, there is a rather large difference between getting off with a vibrator, and actually going for an extended romp in bed with a pseudo-partner." They were stunned by the logic of that statement. While I wasn't asked to demonstrate my self-fucking skills, I did provide proof by giving them the links to my Self-Centred yahoo group.

Now that all being said... 'Asexual' as I interpret it means, no sex at all. Not even masturbation. Whether the person has an aversion to it, or just has no sex-drive at all. They do not entertain sexual activity in any form. My wife has a low sex-drive, but she is far from asexual. I have an overactive sexdrive, but while I like solosexual activities, I can't say that I am a true solosexual, as I love to have sex with her.

Of course we all know the definition of homosexuality; the intimate relations with members of the same sex. I have experimented with homosexuality in my past. While not ashamed of my past, I have no homosexual relationship desires at all. I do however, have the physical need for those physical sensations. I use toys to feed those hungers... So I still believe that leads me to feel I'm solo-sexual, not homosexual. As I'm not looking for a man to relate with, nor to sleep with.

I think some people just want to determine the terminologies to give their psycho-sexual activity some basis for discussion or for ease of discussion. In my mind, I don't need any terminology, but I find it does help to discuss my sexuality with others, as they need the terminology to more easily assimilate the information. Also, any coinage ending with the suffix "-sexuality" is not just talking about the physical activities, but more so the social relationship activities. IE.: I like a cock in my ass everynow and again, but I don't like intimacy with men. Does that make me gay? The only cock thats been in there in over 12 years is a fake one. So, I should think not. Was I ever gay? No. If anything, I was bi-sexual. However, now I live my life as a hetero-sexual, with solo-sexual masturbation preferrences.

Wow... now my brain hurts... Time to go rub one out ..

[eddy]

[quote="lovepre"]Yea, I agree with you Al. I think the term "asexual" should not be used for both types: people who have NO sex at all, and people who only have sex with there self. They say having no sexual interest for either man or woman is asexual, it doesn’t matter if you masturbate, self-suck, self-fuck or not.

I am not asexual or solo-sexual now, but I may become that way someday. Any asexuals/solo-sexual want to jump in and tell us how you became that way? Or were you born that way?[/quote]

I have experimented with women a few times but i have evolved into a asexul