Is self-suck too homosexually charged?

[tyciol]

This isn't related to the homophobia about 'omg is it gay' or anything silly like that, but rather... isn't this website a bit graphic?

Like, there are masturbation guides out there, and sites where people discuss masturbation, but they don't all have pics of guys' dicks and stuff. It seems a bit unnecessary and explicit. It's almost like people are more concerned with watching it rather than discussing the possibility of accomplishing it for themselves.

There's nothing wrong with homosexuality, but I think keeping that to that, and actions to actions, is better for the purposes of discussion. Personally, I'm mostly heterosexual, let's say 90%, and the small minority of guys I might be gay for certainly aren't any of the people in these images, and they wouldn't conduct themselves that way. It's just kind of annoying and distracting.

I mean, I guess it's how the site gets revenues, which it needs because of the high traffic, but since much of the traffic might just be voyeurs and homosexuals out to see kinky people, isn't a lot of the traffic wasted?

The overlap with 'selfuck' really illustrates this. Unlike self-suck, there's really no reason at all for this. It's awkward, and puts the penis in a weird position. Selfsuck often puts the spine and neck in a weird position, but the penis just points up like it usually does, so it's pretty normal. For the purposes of anal penetration, it also seems a bit silly, because you'd barely be able to get it in, and even then, only when flaccid. It seems like it would just make more sense to use a dildo if you really want to do something like that on your own, whereas you can't really simulate the control we have over our mouths.

[awtoeman]

Let me take a wild guess here. You tried to suck your own dick but you cant.

[TreasureHunter]

Just get an ad-blocker if they bother you so much.

[Ziggurat]

Well, I can't really say for the sucking, cause I'm basically a "can only reach the head" sorta guy... as for selffucking... as you can tell by my videos.. I'm hardly flaccid. Softer maybe, but more like a thick and chubby. And I can get quite alot of it in there. At least half...

However I agree that the site in general has a lot of homoerotic imagery. Doesn't bother me at all.. Like you I'm probably 85 to 50 percent straight. I've had my experiences, and none of them bad. I just prefer women and masturbation to men.

Awtoeman's comment may come off a little rude, I hope he was just being cynical. But don't take anything you read here to heart. We are all of us just here to have a good time. Either with our partners or with ourselves.

For the record... Self Anal, isn't just about the feeling you get in the anus or the penis... The feeling is simultaneous... It is awkward yes, but highly rewarding just the same. With a dildo, you don't feel the act from the cocks point of view.... That's the magic of solofucking. I've been fucked in the ass. It's okay. I've fucked people in the ass. It's okay... However, self fucking is probably the most rewarding type of masturbation I've ever experienced. And the only reason I'm writing this hear instead of the Self Fuck forum is cause it's a reply to your post.

So, that's my point of view.

[blacksunshineaz]

I have a feeling that the majority of guys that are interested in selfsucking are straight. I suppose if a guy was gay he'd just find another guy to suck off, but I know I'm straight and to me my motivation is to accomplish this advanced masturbation technique. I do enjoy looking at the pictures though, but it's mostly just the penis and not the whole guy that turns me on. The idea of having a sexual relationship with another guy doesn't interest me, but my interest in selfsucking is something that I've had for nearly 20 years now and isn't going to go away.

[senior sucker]

I suck myself off because it feels good. This has nothing to do with weather im gay or homo as you refer to it. As an adult I have the authority to do to my body what ever I wish to. This is no different than someone tattooing or piercing their skin. If something offends me on TV I can choose to switch to another channel. Im sure that the religious right is appalled to have to live in a society that doesnt mostly agree with their views. But thats ok ,cause there is room for all types.........

[deepseaman]

Maybe you love being here just to make your dick hard? Mee Too... but, I have found that even with age, a lover can get closer... and closer.

[msv]

I watched alot videos and readed alot of stuff back then in internet and I think that it was very important for me as inspiration. I couldn't do much back then but I learned and invented few of my own stradegies which helped nowdays to get that full thing in my mouth. I also posted few stuff of my own and hope someone got good tips from me. It's not nessecerily gay, since you could watch someone doing it and get turned on to do it to yourself. I thinked myself many times if I am closet or something, but I just can't think myself with another guy.

Selfsucking for me is just a regular masturbation, but you can't compare ss with regular one since feeling is so much better. You could suck that thing inside your mouth for a hour and anyday you like and you can even watch your fav porn movie same time easily if you know how to position right. Could be even better than from someone else since you know your thing best. For me it doesn't hurt at all if you just suck the head. Hurts maybe little for maybe first 6 min while getting at it, you try get whole thing in your mouth or do more then hour straight but it's nothing painfull. I also learned not use any of my muscles to force myself to it at any point while sucking it, so you can just lay down doing it

[jaypee]

Maybe that's why there is so little serious discussion on this site...because it 'looks like' a porn site. I love porn sometimes, but all this in-your-face imagery gets old...

JP

[deepseaman]

Why do you come here jaypee? I come for the excellent instruction along with the imagery that is thankfully provided from others. Um,... this is a selfsuck forum isin't it? IN MY FACE is exactly what I want more OF!! :)

[Mixboi]

I don't understand, if you don't like leave. That's what I would do.
Why stick around and complain about something that isn't your own.
Create your own selfsuck and don't put up any images.

[deepseaman]

Images?? Hey!! I'm gettin' ripped-off here!! hehehe I sure wish some kind folks would consider us older sys users once in awhile when posting or offering links though. I know beggers cant be choosers but, I have to live out this w98 sys for a bit longer yet. I love but hate having a vid-clip that I cannot view. hehe Anyways, Thanks to All posters of anykind/everykind!! I just am glad to be in good company. This site Rocks!!

[Dog]

I am personally bothered by the insinuation that selfsucking is a gay undertaking. I've parused a lot of ssing sites, and nearly all have gay reference or are explicitly considered gay sites. As a straight guy who SS's and has for 6 years (and never plan to stop for any reason, unless my back lets me down or whatever) it only bothers me in that I wouldn't exactly want to be found parusing "gay" sites. Watching guys suck each other or fuck each other in the ass does pretty much nothing for me, but these images seem to go hand in hand with the ssing sites. So, there is no answer, except perhaps to create your own site, and keep it straight. As for me, I just ignore the sidebars and crap, and hope like motherfucking hell nobody finds out my little secret. Not so much the SSing secret (nobody knows but me), but I'm sure my fiance would conclude real fast that I'm gay, and would wreck my love and social life. I'm not anti-gay, I don't give a crap what others do with their parts.

[blacksunshineaz]

It seems that all selfsuck content on pay sites are on gay sites. Since there isn't a whole lot of professional selfsuck content out there to support itself, they have to pair it with gay content to make money. I have seen very little hetero selfsuck content (with a woman involved), although I'd love to see it.

Personally, there is so much free selfsuck content (XTube, etc.) that I don't even know why anybody would want to buy any of it, unless it's DVDs. I have thousands of photos and video clips on my computer about selfsucking and it's been ages since I've felt the need to buy anything. I still buy DVDs, but I can skip all the parts I don't want to watch and focus on the good stuff. Unfortunately, there aren't a whole lot of good DVDs out there that focus enough on autofellatio (with the exception of Al, whose DVDs I recommend, and some others). Most I've seen have had only short scenes mixed with gay content and those aren't worth it to me.

I have no problem viewing gay content (it doesn't upset me) but at the same time it doesn't do anything for me. I just want to see selfsucking content. And I don't think it's gay. I think most guys who view selfsuck media either can do it themselves or want to do it. If they want to watch two guys have sex then there's plenty of that to see that has nothing to do with selfsuck.

[seahorses]

I have no problem viewing gay content (it doesn't upset me) but at the same time it doesn't do anything for me. I just want to see selfsucking content. And I don't think it's gay. I think most guys who view selfsuck media either can do it themselves or want to do it. If they want to watch two guys have sex then there's plenty of that to see that has nothing to do with selfsuck.

I agree entirely.