i have a problem like this:
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i can only lick my glans and put it a little bit in my mouth. i need to be more flexible. what should i do? and what position i the best for me and my start?
ss problem?
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Well, not really a problem. Just lack of flexibility like you said. When I first began to ss I got to this stage pretty quickly. About 2 weeks. I slowed down at this stage but kept making progress never the less. Just keep practicing and you will get further. Also, a lot of people stop trying to go further at this stage and just try to enjoy ss without straining. Since it takes people a long time to get to this stage, once they do they stop stretching and just enjoy sucking just the head. I however, just like you, wanted the whole damn shaft so I kept stretching. It took a while and progress was a lot slower than in the beginning but you DO get there eventually. Now I'm at the point where I just choke on my penis. It actually gets in the way of my stretch sometimes and I have to go for the balls.
Only you will know what position suits you best, but if you read through the how “How too,†and practice Yoga; they are the basis that will help condition your body, allowing you to perfect any position. Who know, you might even end up multi-positional!zmxn1928 wrote:then i only have to keep trying and i will be better, and more flexible! tnx for an advice!
what position is best for me as a beginner?
I've been self sucking for about 40 years or so. I guess I'm a natural self-sucker. I have stopped and started back a leased three times. One time for over three years. I am at the point now where I never want to loose the ability again. I work out all the time to stay in shape. When I put on a couple extra pounds, I miss a meal or two, and I changed my diet to Cum Dinners. I suck myself, on average about every other day. Some limbering and working at it is required. Sometimes I find it fairly easy to get my cock in my mouth, but other times it's a struggle.
Zmxn1928, take your time and be comfortable with it. If you have a day when you can’t go far, just lick, kiss and taste a little bit. Try again another day. Also, watch yourself in a mirror. Set the mirror back so you can see if your back is bending in a good curve.
As far as the position, for me, my most relaxed position is the plow. I can’t X position, the angle is a bit wrong and I have to reach forward or press with my legs, so I am not relaxed. I liked the C position also, but I must use one arm to pull close enough. I can do the plow with the lease effort. I can roll back into a plow and have the head in my lips with not much effort at all. Then I have my hands free to explore, while my lips and tongue do the important work. Sometimes I use my fingers to stroke up and down the underside of my shaft. Licking and sucking my cock at the same time. Also I like to do it with my eyes closed, feels like I am really making love to myself. It’s really something to have slurp sessions before finally bring yourself to full blown orgasm. And then drink it straight down without hesitating.
Like I say, this has worked for me. Let me know if it works for you in your quest for the ultimate self gratification.
Zmxn1928, take your time and be comfortable with it. If you have a day when you can’t go far, just lick, kiss and taste a little bit. Try again another day. Also, watch yourself in a mirror. Set the mirror back so you can see if your back is bending in a good curve.
As far as the position, for me, my most relaxed position is the plow. I can’t X position, the angle is a bit wrong and I have to reach forward or press with my legs, so I am not relaxed. I liked the C position also, but I must use one arm to pull close enough. I can do the plow with the lease effort. I can roll back into a plow and have the head in my lips with not much effort at all. Then I have my hands free to explore, while my lips and tongue do the important work. Sometimes I use my fingers to stroke up and down the underside of my shaft. Licking and sucking my cock at the same time. Also I like to do it with my eyes closed, feels like I am really making love to myself. It’s really something to have slurp sessions before finally bring yourself to full blown orgasm. And then drink it straight down without hesitating.
Like I say, this has worked for me. Let me know if it works for you in your quest for the ultimate self gratification.
