Why do we do this?

[Eddie]

There is something different about self-sucking than other forms of sex alone or with someone else. There is a different erotic feeling to putting your own cock in your mouth and cumming. The excitement is intense and yet more intimate for me as I am the lover of my own cock. I am the one who loves my cock so much that I cannot stop doing it any more. At first I felt awkwardly ahsamed, but then as I saw others doing it, I became enthusiastic to finally talk about it openly, which took me to an even higher level of self-love. Finally I was able to hit the back of my throat and trigger my gag reflex, something I have only literally dreamed doing. Wow. I really am my own best lover and best of all, I can always count on loving my own self and enjoying it so intensely like I still love doing after nearly a decade. I am in love with my own cock. I am in love with cumming in my own mouth. Its so intense and so, I cannot fully explain it, so, well, beautiful in feeling. I come home, and within minutes I can instantly take half my cock in my mouth without effort, from years of flexible training. And every time I am like, wow, I am really sucking my own cock. Wow. I cant believe I can do this.
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Your vid is so beautiful Suckmyself...thank you so much! I've been watching it early in the morning on days I devote to all day autofellatio. So hot and inspiring to start the morning off right. Your descriptions of your own love and addiction of autofellatio ring true to my own thoughts. It's a love affair I've enjoyed for many years, and hope to for many more. It's one kind of sex that gets better every day you practice. Young self suckers might struggle what they imagine they want to achieve, maybe frustrated with slow progress. Be patient, and you will be rewarded. This forum has many ideas that may help advance your abilities, and provides so much inspiration. I think this obsession belongs somewhere in the LGBTQ pantheon, as I believe it is a true form of love and passion.

[PT1962Redux]

I totally agree with autofellatio being more than just a sexual act but actually its own form of sexual expression and orientation. I consider myself an autofellator/selfsucker the way others might consider themselves gay or straight. When I'm selfsucking, the intimacy and passion and self-love I experience is the most intense sexual feeling I've ever had and I've never experienced pleasure and self awareness in other sexual acts on the same level as when I'm selfsucking. This is not to say other sex isn't great in its own way, but when I'm selfsucking, it is just so different and so much more meaningful to me.

So as I've said before, to me this is an act of selfhood and identity. I'm glad I've found an online community to help me explore this part of my sexual identity. Just thinking how I've had my dick in my own mouth and I've fucked my own face, or, conversely, I've fellated myself to orgasm. It turns me on just to think about it.

[Selferbro]

I agree bud 100%
I love making love to my cock. The scent, the taste, the act of doing it, suckling my balls in my mouth ....the pre-cum, drawing the semen out of me, the swallowing, the first gasp of breath after the feat, the satisfaction of having sucked yourself off and having pumped your own load down your own hungry throat ........damn!! so many good things.

[Happy Boy]

why did i start doing it?

because i was a perpetually horny teenage geek and girls wanted *nothing* to do with me. blow jobs sounded so much better than jacking off, but my prospects of getting one seemed less than zero.

one night i finally wondered (as all guys eventually do) if i could do it myself. i tried and couldn't...although it didn't seem that far away. i didn't really think it was possible (surely i would have heard about such a thing if it was possible!), but i would still try every now and then when i was feeling exceptionally horny (never successfully).

one of those horny nights i told myself i was being silly...if a guy could actually do that everyone would know that it was possible. i told myself i was going to try one more time, then give it up and try to find some other exciting way of getting off. well...that night i put my arms under my legs for one last time, pulled my upper body towards my crotch, stretched my neck downward, stuck out my tongue, and licked the head of my own fucking cock!! it was too strenuous to do more than repeat that contact just to make sure i didn't imagine that it had happened...no, the end of my dick is wet, i licked it!

once i made contact, i kept trying. it was still quite strenuous (i know now i should have practiced more often), but i got to the point where i could get the head in my mouth for a few seconds. i would frequently jack off to the point-of-no-return and then suck myself off through the orgasm.

why do i still do it?

because i'm a perpetually horny senior with a wife that has lost all interest in sex.

because i have progressed from 'sucking the head through orgasm' to 'plunging deep into my cock's throat and caressing it with those muscles until it blasts into my stomach'.

because nobody has ever given me orgasms like the ones i give myself after going through that 'feedback loop' for 20-30 minutes (or more).

because i never turn me down, i always know exactly what i want (i don't even have to ask for it!), i never rush through just to get it over with, and round two only gets ruled out when i really need to get sleep for the next day.

OP mentioned he thought it was better than any drug...i still like my pot (especially when selfing!), but i agree that it is a natural high unlike anything artificial that i've had (not that i've done a lot of drugs, but you know what i mean...)

relaxation has been mentioned as well...after a long day of physical labor, nothing relaxes me like 15-20 minutes of selfing.

i don't think it is out of line to say it is a semi-religious experience either...i am not traditionally religious in any sense, but i definitely worship my cock...which has created life multiple times and escorts me to heaven on a daily basis.

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[Selferbro]

why did i start doing it?

because i was a perpetually horny teenage geek and girls wanted *nothing* to do with me. blow jobs sounded so much better than jacking off, but my prospects of getting one seemed less than zero.

one night i finally wondered (as all guys eventually do) if i could do it myself. i tried and couldn't...although it didn't seem that far away. i didn't really think it was possible (surely i would have heard about such a thing if it was possible!), but i would still try every now and then when i was feeling exceptionally horny (never successfully).

one of those horny nights i told myself i was being silly...if a guy could actually do that everyone would know that it was possible. i told myself i was going to try one more time, then give it up and try to find some other exciting way of getting off. well...that night i put my arms under my legs for one last time, pulled my upper body towards my crotch, stretched my neck downward, stuck out my tongue, and licked the head of my own fucking cock!! it was too strenuous to do more than repeat that contact just to make sure i didn't imagine that it had happened...no, the end of my dick is wet, i licked it!

once i made contact, i kept trying. it was still quite strenuous (i know now i should have practiced more often), but i got to the point where i could get the head in my mouth for a few seconds. i would frequently jack off to the point-of-no-return and then suck myself off through the orgasm.

why do i still do it?

because i'm a perpetually horny senior with a wife that has lost all interest in sex.

because i have progressed from 'sucking the head through orgasm' to 'plunging deep into my cock's throat and caressing it with those muscles until it blasts into my stomach'.

because nobody has ever given me orgasms like the ones i give myself after going through that 'feedback loop' for 20-30 minutes (or more).

because i never turn me down, i always know exactly what i want (i don't even have to ask for it!), i never rush through just to get it over with, and round two only gets ruled out when i really need to get sleep for the next day.

OP mentioned he thought it was better than any drug...i still like my pot (especially when selfing!), but i agree that it is a natural high unlike anything artificial that i've had (not that i've done a lot of drugs, but you know what i mean...)

relaxation has been mentioned as well...after a long day of physical labor, nothing relaxes me like 15-20 minutes of selfing.

i don't think it is out of line to say it is a semi-religious experience either...i am not traditionally religious in any sense, but i definitely worship my cock...which has created life multiple times and escorts me to heaven on a daily basis.

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Beautiful man. Beautiful.
And yes, I think we all worship our own cocks - I know I certainly do for what my cock and balls give me - intense pleasure in many ways. But selfing is also a physical and sexual connection to myself and a multi-sense reminder of what it is to be a man (oh plus theres a fucking good feed at the end lol)

[selfsuxxer]

interesting discussion, like it very much.

There is definitely some spiritual / semi-religious part of it. If you read Wikipedia, already the Egypts considered Autofellatio as something religious. When I do longer sessions in the dark, I try to keep my dick in my mouth for as long as possible. Not to focus on sucking but just keep it in and be in a comfort position and relax. After a while, sometimes I feel like I'm going into a different space, all the surrounding disappears. there is nothing else than my mouth and my dick. And then I start thinking of "is this the spirit of life?" Or "what I have in my mouth, can actually create life", not alone, but it's an essential part of it, or maybe the beginning. And this "thing" can give such a great feeling, is just unbelievable.

And selfsuck is just the pure form of sexual independence, maybe also an own sexual orientation, as mentioned before. I guess most of us get hard thinking of sucking their own cock or by the taste and smell of their cock. Which is different to the thoughts of jerking off. At least to me, this doesn't generate the same desire / horniness. Maybe my body or brain is trained like this after years of selfsucking.

I wonder to those who cannot selfsuck, if there is any possibility to get into something similar that we can. I guess people who cannot selfsuck cannot image what we experience. There is also no possibility for them to achieve this through money, other substances or tools.

And if it's true, that only 2-3 out of 1k can do it, we are just the very lucky guys. Thanks to the internet, its possible to connect, share our experience. Imagine otherwise, you would need to have luck to find another selfsucker, which would need to be very open to talk about it.

[Selferbro]

I think another reason why I do it is when I see pictures of myself like this - my cock just seems to call me . I just want to bend over and wrap my lips right around that cockhead and to suck the fuck out of my ball sack. Gimme that cum you’ve got in there boys! Lol
I get so hard just thinking about doing it.
Yes I’m a weirdo

[selfsuxxer]

The same applies when I watch videos of myself selfsucking. I tell myself, fuck, this is me, I am sucking myself so eagerly, I just need to do it right now First time I saw a recording of myself, I was so surprised how this looks like and how much I can bend my body.

[CumEater2]

interesting discussion, like it very much.

There is definitely some spiritual / semi-religious part of it. If you read Wikipedia, already the Egypts considered Autofellatio as something religious. When I do longer sessions in the dark, I try to keep my dick in my mouth for as long as possible. Not to focus on sucking but just keep it in and be in a comfort position and relax. After a while, sometimes I feel like I'm going into a different space, all the surrounding disappears. there is nothing else than my mouth and my dick. And then I start thinking of "is this the spirit of life?" Or "what I have in my mouth, can actually create life", not alone, but it's an essential part of it, or maybe the beginning. And this "thing" can give such a great feeling, is just unbelievable.

And selfsuck is just the pure form of sexual independence, maybe also an own sexual orientation, as mentioned before. I guess most of us get hard thinking of sucking their own cock or by the taste and smell of their cock. Which is different to the thoughts of jerking off. At least to me, this doesn't generate the same desire / horniness. Maybe my body or brain is trained like this after years of selfsucking.

I wonder to those who cannot selfsuck, if there is any possibility to get into something similar that we can. I guess people who cannot selfsuck cannot image what we experience. There is also no possibility for them to achieve this through money, other substances or tools.

And if it's true, that only 2-3 out of 1k can do it, we are just the very lucky guys. Thanks to the internet, its possible to connect, share our experience. Imagine otherwise, you would need to have luck to find another selfsucker, which would need to be very open to talk about it.

You all are indeed VERY fortunate men to possess this extraordinary talent. As someone who has never been able to perform autofellatio, I will attempt to answer your question, "if there is any possibility to get into something similar.." For me, I've always had a deep, intimate relationship with my dick. Probably no different than most of you. The thought of my hot, sexy cock alone is enough to arouse me. As others have mentioned, I too am genuinely in love with my own dick. The passion and self lust I experience for it is unrivaled. He is my constant companion; comforting me day or night with a simple touch or glance. Satisfying my aching hunger for my own cum at a moments notice. I am my own greatest lover.

Although I am physically unable to pleasure myself with my mouth, I have always longed to feel my lips wrapped around it; to taste it on my tongue; to nurse out my own thick, warm cum from my hot cock. But alas, it's simply not in the cards for me. That said, I still have a very intimate and satisfying relationship with myself. Over the years, I've learned to appreciate and incorporate other aspects of my body into my self-love making sessions. I have a textbook 'bear' body type and have always found body hair attractive in other men, so it's only natural that I lean into that as well. Caressing my furry belly and chest, feeling fistfuls of thick bush hair, and playing with my balls all add to the excitement, while passionately stroking my thick cock. Sometimes I'll edge-out thick, white cum (which I greedily devour) then usually end-up cumming into my left hand, which of course I lick clean.

I guess we just learn to work with what we've got and no two peoples' journey is ever the same. Cheers to all of you lucky enough to drink from the tap!

[Panther Sauce]

I'm going to deviate from my yoloposting ways and just ask instead:
How could I not?

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[Polevaulter69]

I think another reason why I do it is when I see pictures of myself like this - my cock just seems to call me . I just want to bend over and wrap my lips right around that cockhead and to suck the fuck out of my ball sack. Gimme that cum you’ve got in there boys! Lol

I know exactly what you’re saying here. After around ten days I start getting this small voice/thought telling me, “it’s time to go back for more.” The longer I put it off, the louder the voice gets. For me selfing is a location I get to visit, even though I’m in my own apartment. My surroundings disappear and the world folds in onto one, singular, repetitive act of sustained pleasure.

It’s a state of mind I get to return to that’s been waiting for me and wondering why it took so long for me to return. A combination of several things sends me there; the intimate proximity of flesh sourrounding my face, head, and mouth, the powerful smell of my familiar sexual pheromones spreading from my genitals and crotch, that familiar taste of salty warm flesh, the sound of my heavy nasal breathing, and the close-up visual image of my slick, needy shaft thrusting and withdrawing repeatedly past my protruding lips. It’s immediate gratification and readjustment as it’s needed. If I find a really sensitive spot in need of more vacuum/suction, or longer attention, or need firmer tongue stimulation on my glans, or if I need to thrust a little deeper or faster, or slower, I can deliver it instantly with a thought. Selfing is the ultimate physical form of self-love, need satisfaction, and acceptance. It’s simultaneous dominance and submission. It’s fulfilling the need to both give and take pleasure and feeds so many other subtle cravings. It’s like scratching an itch until you cum!