Not able to move once inside and slipping out right away

[cardboardbox]

Hi. I discovered self fucking two days ago, and i've been trying for two days in a row. I managed both days to put the head inside, but it slips out as soon as i try to move things around, often just because of a contraction, before i can even try to make things more interesting. Foreskin doesn't help, my hole grabs it and my dick just slides out. I tried different positions and the ones that worked best were on my back and on the toilet, i also discovered that i get less irritation on my groin if i twist it but still keeping one ball per side, lenght seems about the same. I don't know how i should get harder once inside so that it grows and locks in better, i have little to no freedom of movement, i don't see how to stimulate it without making it slip, i tried putting a finger in and it feels amazing, but it's only for 3 seconds. I noticed that if i spread my cheeks as soon as it's inside i can hold it a bit better though. Any advice?

[cardboardbox]

Solved it myself, the trick probably was just more relaxation and less lube, i managed to not have to hold my breath during the whole process and saliva instead of lube made things less slippery but still not frictiony. I still can't do a whole lot of up and down, but having a finger in and wiggling it on my frenulum gave me a totally new kind of orgasm (probably prostate, i never had one with ass play), i was litterally shaking, but when i was about to cum with my penis i slipped out, finished off the old fashoned way in a matter of seconds though, and it was still really intense. Definetly the best feeling i ever had, thank you all for sharing your knowledge, it's been really helpful, i hope my experience will be too.

[aleingang69]

Excellent, man - glad you figured it out! It really does seem to be a little different for each man, so - for other's who are trying to work it out (or in, I guess) just keep plugging away until you figure out what works for you.

Keep us up to date on your progress; I bet you'll find some new techniques that'll make it even better, as you keep fucking yourself.

[Sparky91]

Two days!! Thats a quick learner. took me months lol

[bashirtida]

I think self sexing needs a person with long dick.

[aleingang69]

As with sucking, a longer cock will make it easier, but there are definitely men with average-size cocks who can do it. It does seem like the distance between the base of the cock and that asshole are different in different men, and I think that's a big factor. If you can figure out how to pull the head of your cock down past your hole you should be able to at least get it inside.