Ziggurat wrote: ↑Tue Jul 23, 2019 9:52 pm
I voted, but I'm not actually interested in seeking help. I also have no interest in hypnosis. However, if I was, those are the things I'd most want help with.
what he said...
delaying orgasm - not a premature ejac thing...i like to 'edge' and masturbate for long periods of time before i orgasm, but many times it feels so good that i give in to the hedonism and cum when i really wish i could have kept going and dragged the pre-orgasm out even longer.
breathing techniques - this is a big one for edging too. when i am not in the best selfing shape, in addition to the greater strain needed to get to my cock, it also forces more air out of my chest, and i have to stop sucking periodically to breathe.
if i loose weight, or get into a position where my lungs are less compressed it allows me to breathe while sucking and i can stay down as long as my muscles and bones will allow (which is longer than running out of air will allow!)
staying erect - this doesn't bother me so much because i can usually suck my soft cock, and then it doesn't stay soft for long. though i have found as i am getting older, and still enjoying edging for hours, i will get hard, soften for a while, get hard again many times. it all feels great, but the feelings are definitely more intense when hard and it would be nice to 'get the most' from my sucking.
and stamina - again, anything that just keeps it going. being able to stay down longer before needing to unfold, being able to edge longer before orgasm (along with finding more hours in the day to do it, lol!)