"am I gay?" I figured it out!

[Elrond]

So the one guy says, "If I suck my own dick, does that make me Gay?"

And the confident self-sucker says, "Well, giving yourself a handjob doesn't make you Gay, right?"

But the first dude isn't really satisfied, is he? Why is that? I think it's because he would give another guy a handjob and not think that it's a gay thing. As kids, they all played around in various ways, but the sexual play that exchanges fluids is the Gay part.

You can jerk off together. You can even exchange rubs. But when a mouth hits a dick, or a mouth kisses another mouth or some jizz goes up an ass; that's when it ventures into Fagdom. That's how some guys think.

So naturally you can jerk yourself off, or you can help a friend out. But when mouths come into the picture, you must be gay to let anyone cum in your mouth, even yourself.

[Yoruichi]

...I just....I mean...wow...
There are so many threads like this it just blows my mind...
The plain and simple answer is this "If you're confident in your sexuality, you already know the answer to this question. Only those who are already confused will doubt."

...duh

[Danceoff2]

im not gay, the thought of others self-sucking and even when a person posts a picture of themself self-sucking makes me turn away. eriously, im not hiding in the closet or anything, im not gay. i get off to girls, not guys. And i solo-suck somtimes. so wtf, it does not make a person gay, it most likly makes YOU gay, ut not everyone, espessially me

[jesticle]

I grew up near Provincetown, MA- the "Gay" capital of the NE. I was raised straight and was recently engaged. I LOVE women!!! But I won't pass up a nice big juicy cock to suck if the opportunity arises!!! Am I "Gay"....I'd have to say "No"...am I "Bi"? Probably. I have no problems w/ being open to new things sexually. I love to SF & SS. I've had 3-ways, 4-ways and more-ways.
Just enjoy your life and experience it to its fullest. You only go around once. Don't get hung up on Social Branding- Screw Whatever They Say!!!
75% of my male and female friends have ALL had same-sex experiences. Most just won't admit to it.

Jesticle

[Elrond]

Just to clarify: I was pointing out how some people think and why. Of course I don't care what you label yourself or if you skip label altogether. I was just trying to answer why the question comes up in the first place.

"If you think that sucking is the part that makes you Gay identified, then a handjob with yourself or anyone doesn't"

[Dog]

Self sucking seems to be naturally categorized as gay. I've noticed this in my SS Internet searches - "gay self suckers", etc. I haven't seen too much on SS by way of "masturbation" searches. So, if you're an up-and-coming (no pun) SSer, and your scouring other sites (this is by far the best I've seen), don't let the fuckers bring you down, or doubt your sexuality. If you are gay, fine - who cares? If you're straight, or even bi, just enjoy your cock, and your ability. When you're 90, you'll have good memories, and maybe even tell your friends (if they're still living). If they call you a fucking faggot, knock their dentures out with your cane. Happy sucking, my friends, and thanks again Al for a great site.

[sssf guest]

I dont c how this necessarily relates 2 bein gay or str8.
enjoyin 1's body is an auto-chemistry...i.e. ur relation + ur own body!
bsides ss & sf, i luv lickin n suckin my legs n feet, n it gives me gr8 pleasure n satisfaction!
Does it make me gay or str8? No matter, i'm enjoyin myself...who cares?

[coldwarrior85]

I know I asked the question and got some interesting replies which I appreciate and after reading what others have to say and giving it some more thought, I think I can agree it's probably more of an issue for someone still discovering their sexuality.

And since my injury sometime ago, (I'm an amputee now) and I suppose as a result, I'm still in a discovery mode and sometimes it's exciting, but at other times it's just plain scary.

And the ignorance of people can really be a turn-off, but I know I am a very sexual person although I think most people who meet me or view me expect because I'm disabled I've given up sex or something like that...

To be honest, the whole deal with sucking my own cock besides the pure enjoyment of it, I know it's pretty safe and I don't have to worry about STDs and my last girlfriend gave me the best head so I didn't want to end up wanting head and maybe not having someone around to take care of me.

[blacksunshineaz]

I keep seeing posts where a lot of guys ask about whether doing this is gay and appear to be losing sleep over it.

Let me say this -- a solo sex act can't be classified as gay. It can't be classified as straight either. It's just a sex act, with yourself. Enjoying it doesn't necessarily mean that they are going to desire having sex with men. I think a lot of guys are interested in selfsucking but have a fear that it may lead to homosexual tendencies. I think that fear is unfounded. It just means you like to pleasure yourself and that's all there is to it. Guys may seek better ways to get off and selfsucking is one of them.

My girlfriend knows I can do it and she thinks it's hot. She wants to help me get in shape so I can do it better. We both share a very healthy attitude about masturbation and that includes creative methods like selfsucking.

I do find it odd that selfsuck porn is typically classified under the gay genre. I would love to see some hetero porn that depicts this act (anyone willing to make any?). There are probably more straight guys that can suck themselves than gay, mainly because there are more straight guys than gay. But all guys love their own cock and selfsucking is a way to express that.

All I can say is, be glad you can do it and enjoy yourself. Who cares what others think. There are millions of guys who would give their left nut to be able to do this. I've been interested in this for a long time and it seems, although it may never become mainstream, to be an increasingly popular subject. I've been keeping an index of stories and message boards that discuss this over at my Yahoo group and it's almost overwhelming how many discussions there are on the topic of selfsucking.

Life's too short and there are more important things to worry about. Stop feeling guilty about it. Do it, enjoy it, and it's okay to feel some pride that you can do this because it is quite a rare talent. There are a lot of guys out there that are envious of you, whether they will fess up to it or not.

[praetoren]

every man in the world would suck his own dick if he could.
whether they'd admit it or not the throught has crossed their minds.
gay or straight doesn't matter.
you know best how to jack yourself off.
so the theory is you would best know how to suck yourself off.
either way its still masturbation.

-P-

[senior sucker]

Yes Yes Yes..................